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2020.09.22 22:44 Hot_Preparation_1682 Heartbroken

Hi Only joined Reddit a couple months ago, thank you everyone, very entertaining. Never posted anything anywhere on the internet before so feel a bit stupid.
I’m a 36 year old man who still lives at home with his mum, I know, embarrassing.
I started editing articleS online for a content agency in January. Terrible money, just something for a bit of extra pocket money. Came in handy when corona hit and universal credit just wouldn’t do it.
So I’m January I started chatting with one of the managers for said content agency. Over the months we grew very close. Bare in mind this is all online, which makes my feelings and emotions that much more stupid to me.
So we grew very close, share private information, personal details, some deep stuff. Then after 6 or so months she told me she’s on a dating app looking for a financially beneficial relationship. Basically she’s looking for a sugar daddy. It was hard but I understood considering the health care system in America, and the fact that she’s an ex rich kid who was told throughout her upbringing that she’d never need to work. But then all that was taken away. I don’t blame her for wanting a financial stability, in fact I thought it was incredibly brave to commit to sacrificing happiness to have a stable future.
But even after that, she flirted with me, sent me ‘pics’ and made me feel, well special.
But I think over the months I got too attached, felt more for her than I probably should’ve allowed myself to.
I’m 36 years old but am a bit of a hermit, never had a relationship, and have never experienced, or knew that I had these sort of emotions.
So to cut a long story short, I pretty much came off to needy and insecure. She told me that we need to take a break from each other because she’s not in the right head space to be dealing with me. I’m pretty sure looking back that she never really had any real feelings for me And maybe enjoyed the attention, I can’t blame her, so did I.
But I’m just lost, I’ve spent everyday of the past 8-9 months saying good morning to her, speaking throughout the day and night. And now I have nothing. She made me feel like I was a normal person and now it’s just me by myself again.
I am very drunk otherwise I would’ve never written this all down. I’m aware that there are many people all over the world who are going through many more problems than me. I have a roof over my head and the love of my family, and I’m very grateful for that.
I just hurt so much, never felt this before. It’s like constant pain in my chest.i don’t know how to process it.
I’m ready for all the piss taking, I’ve been on reddit long enough. Hopefully some of you with some decent advice will speak up.
Thank you in advance.
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2020.09.22 22:14 Hot_Preparation_1682 Heartbroken

Hi Only joined Reddit a couple months ago, thank you everyone, very entertaining. Never posted anything anywhere on the internet before so feel a bit stupid.
I’m a 36 year old man who still lives at home with his mum, I know, embarrassing.
I started editing articleS online for a content agency in January. Terrible money, just something for a bit of extra pocket money. Came in handy when corona hit and universal credit just wouldn’t do it.
So I’m January I started chatting with one of the managers for said content agency. Over the months we grew very close. Bare in mind this is all online, which makes my feelings and emotions that much more stupid to me.
So we grew very close, share private information, personal details, some deep stuff. Then after 6 or so months she told me she’s on a dating app looking for a financially beneficial relationship. Basically she’s looking for a sugar daddy. It was hard but I understood considering the health care system in America, and the fact that she’s an ex rich kid who was told throughout her upbringing that she’d never need to work. But then all that was taken away. I don’t blame her for wanting a financial stability, in fact I thought it was incredibly brave to commit to sacrificing happiness to have a stable future.
But even after that, she flirted with me, sent me ‘pics’ and made me feel, well special.
But I think over the months I got too attached, felt more for her than I probably should’ve allowed myself to.
I’m 36 years old but am a bit of a hermit, never had a relationship, and have never experienced, or knew that I had these sort of emotions.
So to cut a long story short, I pretty much came off to needy and insecure. She told me that we need to take a break from each other because she’s not in the right head space to be dealing with me. I’m pretty sure looking back that she never really had any real feelings for me And maybe enjoyed the attention, I can’t blame her, so did I.
But I’m just lost, I’ve spent everyday of the past 8-9 months saying good morning to her, speaking throughout the day and night. And now I have nothing. She made me feel like I was a normal person and now it’s just me by myself again.
I am very drunk otherwise I would’ve never written this all down. I’m aware that there are many people all over the world who are going through many more problems than me. I have a roof over my head and the love of my family, and I’m very grateful for that.
I just hurt so much, never felt this before. It’s like constant pain in my chest.i don’t know how to process it.
I’m ready for all the piss taking, I’ve been on reddit long enough. Hopefully some of you with some decent advice will speak up.
Thank you in advance.
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2020.09.22 08:21 ThrowRAbecuz I have no idea how to title this post.

I'll be honest, this post is long AF, but I would appreciate the input of you fine folks in this sub.
I've been on this sub for some time, and have chimed in on occasion with certain posts (on my main account) but this is my first actual submission. I first came across this sub when I began to realize my relationship was doomed, and had nearly posted several times about that situation but backed out, mostly because I found a way to work through my own problems without outsourcing assistance.
But now I find myself in a predicament that practically requires outside input, and I'm not going to lie, Reddit, I'm torn over this one.
I've been married for 13 years, it's been turbulent to say the least. and a few months ago I finally decided to call it quits after a particularly explosive incident involving my (37/M) ex (38/F) going off the deep end too far and too often.
[I'm providing some background in the next few (formatted as quotes) paragraphs, not necessarily for advice, but to get it off my chest. If you don't care, please skip ahead to the normal text]
The details of this aren't necessarily important for this post, but for those curious she developed quite the drinking problem over the years, and became the type that couldn't open a beer without it turning into a bender. I'd found her exchanging some very inappropriate communications with multiple men, when she wasn't deleting her messaging history entirely, that is. She'd opened a dating profile for a time on a sugar-daddy website, despite the fact that she hasn't worked in nearly eight years and I've done substantially well providing for our comfort by myself, leaving her wanting nothing financially. I had asked her seek employment on several occasions during this time, not for financial reasons, but so that she would have some self-identity outside of her daily routine of doing practically nothing to contribute to the wellbeing of herself and our marriage, hoping it would spur her on to better herself.
The final straw came when I was due to work one morning, and she had been drinking the night prior. She had already been on an increasingly rapid downward spiral for several months, often drinking to the point where she began to engage in the type of behavior described in the above paragraph, then sleeping for several days straight where I wouldn't see her at all before almost immediately opening another beer upon waking. The night I left she woke me up at 3am when I had work the next day, drunk as a skunk, and began to berate me for whatever wild scenario her mind had cooked up that night. When I woke to go to work, she was still drunk, and began to engage our our dogs in "conversation", claiming that they told her that they too thought I was a "worthless piece of shit".
When it was time for me to shower, she wanted to come with. I under no circumstances wanted this to happen, not only because I was absolutely disgusted with her at this point, but also because I didn't want to be responsible for both ensuring she didn't slip and hurt herself and making sure I was able to make it to work on time.
When I went to shower, I made sure to lock the bathroom door, something I've never had to do. This caused her to damn near kick the door down, (she did manage to put a sizeable hole in it, and I now have to replace the door) I made it to work on time, but was dangerously exhausted all day.
I haven't slept under the same roof as her since.
My life has improved dramatically since leaving. I have been able to focus on my work and the things that are important to me without her drama interrupting me. I did end up moving around a lot initially as I stayed in a hotel at first and then couch-surfed with friends, but I've managed to secure accommodations and some semblance of stability for the last month and a half or so.
The more time I am apart from this woman, the more I realize how much her antics drained my energy and held me back as I tried to compensate for her lifestyle and found myself constantly making excuses for why she couldn't attend social gatherings or even our marital counseling sessions (because she was sleeping it off or still drunk).
If I'm being honest with myself, I only stayed with her as long as I did out of pity, and because I have very good insurance and she has some medical concerns I didn't want to leave her without adequate care for. But it has cost me dearly to stay with her in terms of time and energy. Though now I've contacted a lawyer, and am filing for divorce, and I have no intention of looking back at time wasted at this point.
Now (finally) my problem. I've met someone.
I realize that out of all of the above drama, if you cared to read it, this should not sound like the kind of thing I need to bring to this particular sub. If the circumstances were marginally different, I would be more than content to move on with my life, never look back, and ride off into the sunset.
I didn't intend to meet someone, and certainly didn't go looking for anyone after the mess I left behind. On chance, however, I found myself on hanging out on what I intended to be a platonic social excursion with a co-worker of mine, also recently divorced. We had a good time together, and for the day I remembered what 'normal' felt like. We thoroughly enjoyed each other's company, and have spent more and more time together since. Obviously we became intimately involved during this time, but I didn't think much of it, as we had both just come out of our respective relationships. I've hung out with several other people as well since I left my ex, and have had a perfectly good, absolutely platonic time with each of them... I state this just to clarify that I don't think I'm in a position where I find myself latching on to the "next thing to come around", so to speak.
Then we had our weekend away last weekend.
We took a trip, got a swanky hotel and spent the weekend together. During the course of this we discovered, and confessed, that we both had serious feelings for one another. We are very compatible in so many ways, as I'm sure all new loves feel they are at least at first.
The problem here is that by many, if not all social conventions, she is inappropriately young for me.
Not to the extent that she is illegal, I would never entertain that idea at all and find it repulsive! But she is in her early twenties and I am fast approaching my late thirties. I had always dated women around my own age if not older in the past, and I don't know how to feel about this.
In every other way I would consider her to be perfect, count my blessings, and move on with my new-and-improved life. She is everything I had always wanted, but over the years I had resigned myself to the thought that I would never again have the opportunity to experience. She is hard-working, intelligent, adventurous, witty, compassionate, thoughtful, caring and of course beautiful inside and out. She's already a published author, and is by far the most interesting person I've ever met. (not to mention well adjusted and perhaps most importantly, not a crazy alcoholic)
Obviously, there is the fact that we are co-workers, and I do hold a much higher position than her, though she is not subordinate to me in any way directly. But this to me feels so secondary to the primary conflict I feel about her that I almost don't care. Not that we have plans to out ourselves at work any time soon.
I'll be honest. I'm in love with this woman. I'm not naïve enough to think this will last forever, but I don't want exclude that as a possibility, just in case. If she were five or even ten years older, I wouldn't think twice about any of this.
I just don't know how tolerant the world will be of this sort of thing, which is why I am going straight to the most volatile and direct source of honesty I can think of, the internet. Chastise me if you will, call me a pervert if you must... though I hope I've done a good enough job of clarifying that there is in no way a fetish-fulfillment scenario involved here. I certainly had no intention of trading in the ex for a newer model when I left her.
However, I would greatly appreciate any constructive ideas about how to approach this situation which I happened upon. The last thing I want is to sabotage this potential relationship because I am too worried about what people might think of our age difference in our day-to-day life, I simply find her too amazing to let that happen.
Thanks in advance, Reddit
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2020.09.16 09:19 renaxue Why do rich sugar daddies like to join online dating site?

sugar daddy dating sitessugar daddies on online dating sitesHave you noticed an increase in the number of sugar daddies on online dating sites? Today, online dating sites have become a haven for older, wealthier sugar daddies. Worryingly, these “sugar daddy” dating sites are widely used. The sites, which are increasingly common among so-called sugar daddies, have found a way to dispose of unwanted COINS. As more rich dads join these dating sites, one can’t help but wonder why so many rich dads like to join them. Here are the main reasons.
Live or work away from your family
Many rich dads are far from their families, running their own businesses, or working for big companies far from home. This gives them the freedom to find other young and sexy women to satisfy their sexual desires.
Your partner lacks proper care
While this shouldn’t be used as an escape, many rich dads are joining these sites to find someone who can show them the love and care of the loved ones they miss. The idea is that young women know how to play the game when dealing with sugar daddies. This motivates them to experience better relationships.
Lack of good religious foundation
Many people in the world today are so obsessed with work, technology, family and friends that they forget about their god. Religion condemns adultery and other ACTS, adultery has become a social order, people rarely pay attention to this issue. To be exact, these sites have been advertised in our media; Newspapers, television, magazines and radio stations show how people accept these behaviors without fear.
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These sites are just a few clicks away and you don’t have to go through a few ultimately disappointing dates. This is because both parties have a common agreement that they are willing and ready to meet and interact.
Influence from media and Internet
Advertising on search sites has become so common on the Internet and in the media. As a result, people can easily approach them in the comfort of their homes or workplaces without extra effort.
In short, it is a person’s choice to do what their heart and soul are pleased with. So, at this point, the “sugar daddy” dating site has proven to be a good one and excited users. These and many other reasons are driving wealthy dads to find more and more fun through sugar daddy dating sites.
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2020.09.16 00:59 dj_warner6291988 Found a Fluff Part 15

Found a Fluffy
Links to previous chapters at bottom of the post.
Arrow the Bat Fluffy for this story is based off the artwork from u/A0ide found HERE After you all read this chapter, Please comment.
Comments about your favorite parts or characters and why they were your favorite parts or characters. Or even your most hated parts and characters, can help me to understand what I'm doing right, as well as wrong in some cases. Or help me further realise things about characters i didn't realize i was even putting in.
And thank you all for reading!!
Also if you wish to be a part of the alerts list let me know. They are now posted at the bottom of the post. As always if i messed some lore or something about fluffies up please let me know in comments or in a message. I will gladly try and adapt as I can. I am still learning. Though I do have a post with my own headcanons and information from within the world. found HERE
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Audrey was sitting in the van she was looking worried, but it seemed as they were going along. Everything almost seemed to be going in slow motion for her. Big Papa was looking as if he had a bloody nose, he was said to have broken ribs he seemed to be trying to rest. Audrey was shaking, Arrow nosed under Audrey’s hand and nuzzled as if trying to get the Human to pet her.
Audrey picked up Arrow and nuzzled her trying to find comfort and answer in what was happening.
It was another hour. Her sitting in the waiting room with the boxes of both Bessy and her babies, and Milly and hers. Arrow in her arms trying her best to comfort and cheer up her Human.
Some people had noticed her, one child had tried to ask Audrey what was wrong but their parents pulled them back whispering that it's not right to ask that of a crying person.
Little tomato baby began to peep and cry again. Audrey looked down; she didn't even realise she was still holding the bottle and sniffled picking up the tiny foal she gently rubbed its belly as they drank hungrily.
Arrow sat on Audrey’s lap watching and when the small baby it seemed seemed to fuss and fight with the want to eat she got close and took the foal beginning to clean them and hold them… helping like she seen Bessy do with the little ones when they were too little to do it themselves she helped the little one empty some things then nosed them back to Audrey, “hew...de bedder now.” She said softly knowing Audrey was still needing something to focus.
After a bit the Vet lady came out, “ok… he is stable… he is… honestly i don't know how he isn't dead yet. Or how he managed to walk home with a broken leg and a busted rib. But he is strong it seems and will be alright.”
Audrey let out a sigh of relief, and smiled, “Thank you.”
She smiled, “of course, and since we have the others here, you still want me to get the little ones up to date on shots and give that little one in your hands a look over?”
Audrey nodded, “you think we can-”
Before she could finish her sentence there was a voice, “Hay stop!” and someone falling over something.
While Big Papa hobbled out from the hall behind the lady and over to Audrey he sat between her legs like a well trained fluff. The aid ran out after him then looked amazed, “oh… ok…” they slowly went back in.
Arrow lept down, hugged him, and began to groom her father as if to try and calm herself down as well as comfort him.
Audrey relaxed a bit, “ya lets get that all done since we're here. No point in wasting your time.” she seemed a bit sheepish for having panicked so hard.
“Mama look at him, he looks like a night sky, can i pet him?” the child in the waiting room asked.
“Hus child. No. He is hurt, do you see his cast and bandage?” the mother pointed out.
Some people were recording with their phone mostly as a Look who uses my vet office thing, and others showing video of the wounded fluffy and tiny runt alicorn in Audrey’s hand.
After this… it seemed a relatively quick visit. The foals all being spayed or neutered and all given shots. All but the alicorn. they seemed to be too weak for any surgeries. But they were looked over and after given their shots it was recommended some antibiotics for them.
Bessy had been stressed watching the vet very intently and at first had even escaped her box and head butted the vet in the ankle to protect her babies. Audrey had to hold her after That.
Milly it seemed was very meek but watched with worry as her babies were given shots and such. And after a check up it was deemed the poor thing had an infection in her throat as well as something called cobblestones in the back of her throat that made it very hard for her to talk.
Before Leaving Audrey opted to have all the Fluffies Chipped and tagged so even the babies had collars upon their neck. She did not want to risk anything further. And when they got home… she took to the internet. Figuring with the help of many eyes she may have the best chance to find Taffy then any other.
She had been given a few suggestions and some tips. She quickly went to lock the window realizing… they had spent so much time at the vet…it was dark. And, she still did not have her car. She swore under her breath as Big Papa hobbled over to her.
“Awdwy otay? Awdwy need huggies?” he seemed to look sad.
Audrey sighed, “I… I think I'm going to camp out here in the living room with you tonight.” she admitted biting her lip, “Maybe we can watch a movie and eat some spaghetti what do you think?” she offered, her voice still sounding sad and almost melancholy.
Mocha perked up as did the 4 of Milly’s bebeh’s, “Movie! Skettehs!!” they cheered.
Audrey put in a care bear movie from her youth. And made some spaghetti to share with the herd. She brought out some pillows and blankets from her room so she could sit in the middle of the room and rest there… Doing her best to try and insure that all of them were safe and sound.
Audrey seemed to not have a great rest. She seemed to have woken up every 2 hours checking on all the fluffs. And feeding the one she deemed Tomato.
By morning she had already dressed knowing full well she wasn't going to get any sleep. She had checked, double checked and triple checked all the windows to insure they were locked and safe. She had refilled the auto feeders and topped off the water bowls. She had washed the dishes, remade her bed and cleaned everything she could without waking the fluffs.
When they woke up she gave both Mato and Milly their medicine, and spent a little while playing with them and the others making sure she spent time playing with each and every one. She noticed the 3 cow fluffs from Bessy were starting to get their horn nubs. The little girls had the same type of horns as their mother it seemed with the color of their dad, but their brother.. He had the two horns on each side. But also one dead center of his head. The black and white foal seemed to be hornless.
“Three horns?” Was Burney part unicorn? She shook her head and she would inform Pete later… right now she had a fluff to find.
“Ok everyone, it's almost noon. I need to get down to that shop and get my car, I'll take Mato with me since they will have a few feedings between then and now. Everyone be safe, and I will be back before dark. Milly i will get you your medicine when i get back.'' She then picked up her purse and used an old scarf to make a sling to put Mato in it and put a bottle of milk in her purse in a small lunch bag to keep cold with a Syringe bottle for the tiny fluffy.
Audrey locked the door behind her, then went down and explained everything to the landlady in detail this way if she saw Taffy at the door. Or if she saw someone coming in with them they could be let in or she could get them.
She began to speed walk to her car when she got a call.
“Hello?” Audrey answered her brows frowned, “No… he isn't a green fluffy with yellow hair, was there not a colored picture on the flier?... ok well does the fluffy your asking about look like the one on the flier? … Ok… so why do you call and get my hopes up? … ma’am I'm sorry your fluffy is old, but I at the moment live in an apartment and have several fluffies of my own. I AM working on a shelter but have not gotten that up. Try calling an actual shelter.” She hung up. And growled finally reaching the car.
She got in… just in time for another call to come in… same person. Audrey ignored it. She drove as safely as she could with her little passenger to the location with the hotdog vendor. She went down the ally and when she heard peeping she paused frowning. This light pink mare was not her Taffy.
Audrey knelt down and held out a hand seeing her collar. “Hay there Are you lost?”
THe mare seemed hesitant; she looked about then up to Audrey and got up. She had 5 babies on the blanket she tried to cautiously walk over and sniffed Audrey’s hand.
“Ou be nu Mamah?” they asked with a hopeful look. Audrey smiled and gently scratched behind the other’s ear and tried to get a look at the collar.
There were no tags. Audrey frowned, “I don't know dear. Would you like to come with me to a friend's place? We can try and find your Mamah or Daddy?”
The mare smiled and leaned into the scratches seeming to happily nuzzle Audrey.
“What is your name dear?” Audrey asked gently looking over to the foals, They seemed to have 2 unicorns of semi-decent colors, a brown foal pegasus, and 2 earth fluff babies. All looking in decent health.
“Candfwuff.” she answered looking over to her newborns, “Wan see Candfwuffs Bebehs? Deh is pwetty bebehs.” She spoke proudly trotting over to sit beside them proudly. There was… what seemed to be someone’s lost hoodie laying in the bottom of the crate to help cushion the bottom and help keep the babies warm.
Audrey could feel the light chill in the air… she couldn't keep doing this. But.. her heart hurt, “Is it just you and your babies here Candy?”
She shook her head, “Nu, Candyfwuff’s specew fwen wen for Nummehs for Candy so can make watsa Miwkies for bebehs.”
Audrey smiled, “Well he sounds like a very good Special friend for you then. Shall we wait here for him to come back?”
She smiled and nodded, “Pweze mamah. Wait for Candyfwuffs speciew fwen come back.”
Audrey in her new pantsuit she usually now always went out to sit beside the crate and pulled out Mato and began to feed him a bit, Trying her best to stimulate some things… remembering being scolded by Arrow for not doing so since he was so little.
Candyfluff seen the small one in Audrey’s hands and quickly snatched them away and brought the fluffy to her own nest and set them down as if he had been hers all along then gave puffed out cheeks to Audrey, “Why bebeh so tiny?”
“Before I got him he had a bad mumah. I've been trying to help him drink but he is so little he couldn't latch onto the ladies back home.” Audrey was still a little shocked Candy snacked Mato from her.
Candy sat up and looked down to the little one and tried to move them closer, “Hew bebeh, Twy get miwkies. Candyfwuff wub all bebehs.” She said happily.
Mato chirped happily, “Fank Ou!” they made their way over and tried their best to latch on. They seemed to have some difficulty but oddly enough almost soon after were latched and drinking happily. It was then that Audrey noticed that Candyfluff was a bit smaller in size then even Milly… Younger maybe?
“Who Ou!” a male’s voice called out.
Audrey’s eyes moved over to a Green stallion who had some dandelions and what may have been trash found veggie tops in front of him where he set them his head positioned so his horn was almost pointed at her.
“Booger! Dis nu Mamah! Deh wait For Ou so whol famwy hab new housies.” Candyfluff said happily.
The green stallion apparently named Booger kept his head slightly low and began to sloooowly position himself between Audrey and the Crate. He would then look back at Candy and the babies and his eyes would water happily till he saw the red one suckling and he would narrow his eyes and look at them, “Who dis? It no Smew same as odder bebehs, No smew wike deh Dadah?” he stated as if trying to think of what to do.
“They are mine. They had a bad mumah who was going to hurt it. But I was going to keep it. Candy here offered to feed them.” Audrey explained she now felt a little anxious. But then seen the Stallion sit down as if trying to process something and needed more brain power to think then to stand.
“So...ou wan Candyfwuff and Booger and bebehs to go wif Ou so Candy Can feed Ou bebeh? Ou Gib Candyfwuff good nummehs and wet bebehs hab gud home?” he looked behind him...there were some tears in his eyes.
Audrey couldn't help herself. She picked him up and gave him a gentle hug, “Oh you poor thing. No that isn't it. I came out here looking for a fluffy I lost but I'm not about to let a new Mumah be out here when cold times are coming. You're going to be safe. I may have to move sooner than I planned so as not to cause problems for my landlady, But i promise I won't let anyone bad get a hold of you two or your babies.” she gently nuzzled him.
Booger… struggled at first.. Then sniffled… then began to cry turning his face into Audrey’s chest and just letting out what seemed years of Tears and sadness, “Booger be Gud fwuffy. Booger no wan fight. Booger will pway nice wif odder fwuffies pwamus.”
She could feel his ribs, “Oh sweet thing i know. You're ok. I got you… let's get you and your family to my car. Get you all safe and snug in the carrier i have there so you can travel without getting hurt ok?”
He sniffled and cried but apparently needed carried, Meanwhile Candyfluff was putting her babies and Mato on her back and following along to the car she looked up to her Stallion with worry but let Audrey carry him.
Audrey put them in the fluffy carrier she had in the back for mocha and others during car trips, it was a newer one padded and had a small food bowl in it and a guinea pig style water bottle. At first the food bowl was empty but then Audrey put in some of the Dry Kibble in it for the two adults, “There you are you two get comfy. I'm going to give one last look about the Ally for Taffy.”
Upon hearing the name Booger looked over at Audrey with worry. But she hadn't seen, already closing the carrier and beginning to set the car up with the air temp on, and radio with the fluffy songs on it.
She got another call after setting up her car, she answered, “Hello?” hopeful.
“HOW DARE YOU IGNORE MY CALLS!” Audrey hung up again, and rolled her eyes. She had no time to deal with idiots who got fluffies and were unable to care for them.
She began to look up and down the alley. Hopeful to find something then… seen what looked to be a matted dog, “oh geez this area needs help…” She huffed and shook her head.
The creature whose fur was all matted saw Audrey and squeaked running away. But at the moment there was no sign of Taffy. She frowned and turned to head back to the car.
Then another call. Audrey was getting fed up with this and she answered without looking, “Look Lady. If the Fluffy you Have is NOT the one on the Poster i don't give two cares if You can't keep it. I live in a Apartment. I can't help Your Fluff is a Senior And i Can't Help you kept a fluffy till then and NOW can't Afford to Have him put down, I'm Not a charity. Not Yet anyway. You don't need to be calling me 30 times in 15 minutes and when I don't answer find another phone to call me from am i Clear?!” she growled into it.
Rainbow suspenders on the other side, “Uh… clear but i'm not a lady nor do i have a fluffy?”
Audrey sighed and facepalmed, “Oh god damn. I'm sorry… had some lady calling me from the number on the Lost posters… I swear i'm half tempted to find out where she lives and put sugar in her gas tank.”
There was laughter on the other end, “holy shit remind us not to piss you off. Anyway our Boss wanted to know how much for that placenta you wanted. Since we didn't get it off you yet.”
Audrey sighed and shook her head, “Again i'm so sorry… But ya. Meet me over at my apartment, bring the vet lady again if you can, I found more. But one has a collar on so i think they may be lost. And… i don't know how much did your boss say you could give me?”
“He said he is putting his limit at a few million…” Idiot in the background said.
Audrey paused and thought, “Actually that much could probably help me move things along so i'm not stuck waiting for the offer on that house.”
“Oh...cool we will be right over then.” Rainbow suspenders stated.
Audrey got in the car and sighed.
“Ou fin fwuffy? Nu Mamah?”
“No Candy, I didn't find him. But… i hope he is alright. It's a very scary city out there. And I don't know what mischief he could get into.”
She drove home ignoring the other calls figuring it was best to let them go to her voicemail for now. She would Part outside her building and wait rubbing a temple. The vet lady showed up first before the Hasbro Dogs.
“I hear your selling?”
Audrey rolled her eyes, “only the placenta. That has been in my freezer for almost a month now. They are not about ot get any living samples from me.” She huffed then open up the back door and carrier.
The Vet looked in, “Aw… I know you dear.” She reached in and gently picked up Candyfluff.
“You do?” Audrey sounded confused.
“Ya her owner used to always have me come to his house and give her check ups, he always wanted to know how soon she could breed and all that. He apparently was trying to get what he called the perfect fluff.” she shook her head, “How are you candy dear?”
“Candy… candy daddeh kick her out cus he no fink Candy hab pwitteh bebehs. But Nu Mama fink Candy hab pwitteh bebehs. Nice wady fink candy hab pwitteh bebe to wite?” she looked back at the carrier worried.
Booger was standing over his 5+1 Foals Cheeks puffed and watching the Vet.
“They look lovely dear and very healthy. So do you. I'm guessing that is to this little fellow here? He must have been very good about keeping you fed and safe wasnt he?”
Booger seemed to lower his head a little, not pointing his horn yet, but seemed untrusting of the nice words.
“Your ok Booger. This lady helps me keep all the fluffies healthy.” Audrey explained, “She won't hurt your babies or Candy.” Audrey explained then looked ot the Vet, “Can you get ahold of her old owner see if it was a accidental tossing or something? I don't want to be considered a thief you know?”
The vet smiled and nodded, “Oh i can call him now.” She called the man and after him calling the Vet lady every name but her own and then some… it was obvious he wanted Nothing to do with candy and promised he would sign her over if someone came to him with paper work.
“Well...i can get that covered tonight. Lets get these littles up todate on shots they are to little to have fixed but i can visit again in about a week or so from now.” The vet smiled.
Booger seemed less trusting when Cotton was placed in another carrier along with Mato as if he was worried they were going to leave him and the babies behind but when The vet lady picked him up and gave him shots. He was lashing about, and Audrey had to help hold him down. But when it was done and both Candy and Audrey were hugging him and cuddling him telling him how brave he was and how they would keep him from getting sick. He calmed a bit.
The babies were next they just needed more huggies from their mother. By the time they were done the Hasbro dogs were there.
“Perfect timing. Help me bring in the new Brood, and careful they just had shots.” Audrey chuckled.
Heading in the landlady met up with Audrey, “Did you find him?”
Audrey shook her head, “no..but i found this lady who just had her litter and we contacted her old owner but…”
The landlady sighed, “Audrey you know i cant just let you keep taking fluffys in.” she crossed her arms.
“I'm working on getting a new place. I Will give my word as soon as i'm able ill move them all out of here.” Audrey sighed knowing she really was pushing the limits.
“No more… till you move got it?” the land lady said sternly.
Audrey gave a nod, “You have my word.”
With that the new brood was able to be brought up to the apartment.
Big Daddy was watching from his chair so he already knew what was coming he sat waiting a cast on his leg and eyes on the door.
Audrey smiled, “Hay everyone… one new mumah to add to the group. I'M sorry… and i promised even the land lady that this will be the last group to come up to this apartment. After this we will be moving… as soon as we can. Though…” She felt a bit guilty, “I do hope we find Taffy before then…”
Arrow came over sniffing the carrier she lept back and Hissed with wings open when the horn hit the inside of the cage.
Audrey gasped and picked up the carrier holding Booger, “Hay Easy, She didn't mean anything by it she was just trying to see you.”
The vet open the carrier with Candyfluff and her babies getting her set up in the mumah corner.
“Hewow Nu fwens i Candyfwuff. Me am Happy meet nu fwens.” she looked at bessy and Milly’s babies and her eyes sparkled, “Ohh Ou boff hab pwetty bebehs to!!”
Milly after hearing this pirked up a bit, and a squeak of a voice for the first time since her coming there, “Fank...ou…”
Bessy smiled and seemed quite proud, “Bessy bebeh good bebeh, And If nu fwen need hewp wiff miwkies Bessy hab wats for all bebehs.” She stated proudly.
Mocha was watching all the babies with wide eyes and seemed to bounce around happy that there would be more to play with and hug and teach.
As the three mothers bondedand fussed and talked about their babies Milly piping in every so often, Audrey was carefully opening the door to Booger’s cage, Arrow keeping a eye on him, and Big Papa watching from the chair.
Booger slowly came out from the carrier, he had his head lowered as if a defence position he grew up learning, however he did not have his horn pointed at anyone. He seemed to relax a bit only seeing Arrow… and bessy… and milly and one brown stallion, He seemed to relax and raise his head a bit then… he smelled it and his eyes went wide.
Big Papa came down from his chair, “Hewo Booger.” he hobbled over a bored expression on his face.
Booger sat and lowered his head… he began to make a mess, “Big bue…”
“Booger no make bad poopies on fwoow we hab twittew box.” he shook his head as if disapointed.
Audrey looked between them, “Ok… you two know one another….”
The hasbro dogs cleared their throat. Audrey looked over “Right… sorry.”
She left to pull out the frozen bio waste and get the check.
Mean while Big Papa sat down and watched Booger, “So… Ou got bebehs now?”
Booger sniffled and shook his head.
“Not Ou Bebes?” Big papa tilted his head and began to look about, “wawe is Ou Bwuddah? Bow?”
Booger began to look down with a hung head, “Bawky monstah…” he said.
Big papa gave a nod, “Ah… Sowwy Booger.” He looked over to Candy Fluff and the foals, “Deh His?”
Booger gave a sad nod.
Big papa gave another, “Deh safe here Booger. Ou safe To. Dis gud hooman. Deh keep word.”
Booger gave a nod and tried to whipe away a tear, “Seen Taffy…” they said quietly glancing to the humans then back to Big Papa not sure if they knew or not.
“Keep dat to sewf.” Big papa said still looking about the room at the group.
Booger gave a nod and watched as Audrey after getting paid ushered the Two Dogs out, and the vet who was putting the bio waste into a lunch bag to keep cold.
“Neba been in housie befur.” Booger stated looking around.
Big Papa Smiled, “me show Ou wound.” he chuckled and began to hobble around and show the other ware everything was while Audrey began to clean up the mess that was now on her floor.
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2020.09.15 15:39 cdf21882 I Find Things (Part 2)

( Note: This story was originally titled 'I Found a Healthy Respect for the Outdoors')
My name is Jack. I find things. Usually, I find things like keys and other random shit for people, but recently I have branched off into more unusual items. Case in point, when I helped my new GF Kara look for her grandmother’s locket. I found it alright, but I also found the pissed off, child, ghost of her Great-Aunt Patricia too.
Speaking of Kara, what a little vixen. For those of you wondering how things with her are going, they’re great. We’ve been spending lots of time together, and now that her house is free of angry spirits, she has decided that it would make an awesome B&B, and I can’t agree more. Can you believe Great-Aunt Patricia is even on board with the idea?
Let me tell you, that kid, she has really turned over a new leaf. If only someone had given her a shiny, new pretty sooner. Am I right? She and Kara are like two peas in pod now. Kara says she’s like the little sister she never had, which is weird considering she’s her aunt and a ghost, but stranger things, right?
So, enough about all that, let’s get down to the nitty gritty. I mentioned at the end of my last post how I had figured out I could use my talent to find more than just everyday items. Followed by a statement about helping anyone find things, just to let me know and all that. Well to be perfectly frank, I kinda made that declaration in jest. I know, assy move. It’s not that I don’t want to help you guys, but after the locket debacle, I really just wanted to stick to finding mundane stuff. I said what I did, just trying to be nice since you put in the time and effort to read my post, but like Jeff Goldblum said, “Life finds a way.” Let’s just say it found a way to bite me in the ass for making false statements, and it used my sweetheart Kara to do it.
Apparently, she’s on reddit too, and she has a huge following. Well, long story short, Kara came across my post, and not only took my words to heart, but thought it was really sweet how I put myself out there like that to help people. Then, supportive gf and all, she went on to share my post with all of her reddit friends and followers, FB friends, and well you can see where this is going.
When Kara told me what she had done, and how proud of me she was, I didn’t have the heart to tell her I was only being nice, so I sucked it up, owned my mistake, and here we are; a second post. That’s right, I have more scary shit to tell, and guess what? It’s a camping story.
I will put this out here right now, I am not an outdoors kind of guy. I respect the outdoors, and people that are outdoorsy, but it isn’t for me. As you know, I recently found out that ghosts are real, and if they are real, there is no telling what the hell else is real, especially in the outdoors.
So, a few days ago, Kara caught me in the break-room at work. She was smiling really big and looked kind of excited, so it made me feel all warm and fuzzy inside. She has a great smile by the way. She told me she had some good news. I asked her what it was, and when she told me, let’s just say my warm fuzziness disappeared pretty damn quickly.
She told me she has a friend on reddit named Dale, and he owns a public campground a couple of hours away. Before she could go any farther, I told her no way I don’t do camping or anything else in the out of doors.
“But Babe, I love camping,” she said all doe-eyed. “Besides, Dale needs you to help him find something.” I looked at her with my best “do I have to” face, but her expression told me this was an argument I wasn’t going to win. I let out a big sigh. “Okay, what does he need me to find?” Victorious, she smiled wryly. “He said he would fill us in when we got there this weekend.”
Word of advice for all of you guys out there, stay single, women can be trouble.
I stuck my tongue out her and went back to my desk.
In all honesty though, I wasn’t mad at Kara for pushing me to help Dale. She is one of the best people I know, and as I’ve said before, I would do anything for her. Besides, who could stay mad with that amazing smile of hers, I’m just saying.
Saturday morning, I pulled up in front of Kara’s house. As I got out of the car, I noticed Aunt Patricia looking down at me from one of the second-floor windows. We waved to one another, and I headed up the walk and went inside.
Kara was in the kitchen making coffee, and she was in full blown camping mode. She wore a pair of khaki shorts that were rolled up at the legs, and what I can say was the most disturbingly, appropriate t-shirt I could have imagined for a camping trip; a Camp Crystal Lake counselor shirt.
She greeted me with a kiss. “Morning handsome. You ready for your first camping trip?” she asked.
“Not particularly,” I told her. “Interesting wardrobe choice by the way.” She grinned maliciously. “I thought you would appreciate the humor of my shirt.” I rolled my eyes. “I swear, if your friend mentions anything about looking for missing campers in the deep, dark woods, I’m out.” “Poor guy,” Kara said with a pouty face. “I’ll protect you from the big, bad monsters in the woods.” She busted out laughing. I just stood there mentally updating the list of deal breakers for my next girlfriend.
Before long, we had the car loaded and were on our way to Dale’s campground. It was our first extended car ride, and it was a blast. We spent a while playing Guess That Tune. For anyone that has seen Twilight Zone: The Movie, just know, our game at least, didn’t end with a horrible death, just Kara winning nearly every round. Besides playing car games, we found we both have a passion for car karaoke, and just so you know, I’m the better singer.
Around noon, we arrived at our destination. I took one look at the sign and shook my head; it read Crazy Acres Camping. Kara, on the other hand, was amused and said she thought it was a cute name. The thing ladies think are cute, I swear.
We drove down a winding, tree-lined road and parked in front of a rustic looking building. The sign hanging above the door read Camp Office. Kara and I were just getting out of the car, when a man rode up on a four-wheeler.
He was in his early to mid-fifties, and he wore the quintessential camp uniform: boonie hat, khaki shorts, and olive drab polo with the camp name on the pocket. “If this wasn’t Dale,” I thought. “I would eat tree bark.” The man dismounted and held out his hand. “Afternoon folks. Thanks for coming. I’m Dale.”
Nailed it.
We both shook hands with him, and then he showed us into the office. The inside was just as rustic as the outside, and the walls were adorned with all sorts of woodsy items, the grandest of all being a massive moose head mounted above the desk.
Being a reddit friend, Kara and Dale only had a passing acquaintance, so we spent the first little while making general chitchat. Dale was obviously a nice guy, and he exuded a sort of crazy uncle vibe. Who doesn’t love a crazy uncle?
The property had been in Dale’s family for a long time, but it wasn’t until he took it over, that it became a public campground.
“I grew up loving the woods, and loving camping,” he told us. “It was only natural for me to share that love with as many people as I could.” Kara said she understood completely, but I didn’t get it at all. I guess I was just too fond of AC and indoor plumbing. There was a little small talk, then we got down to brass tacks.
Over the last couple of months, Dale had received numerous reports from campers who had things come up missing from campsites in a certain area of the grounds. It started out as food, which wasn’t too out of the ordinary due to the amount of wildlife in the surrounding woods. “Raccoons can be some damn crafty SOBs,” Dale told us. Then things escalated. Entire coolers filled with food, drinks, etc. started disappearing, and after that, everything from hammocks, sleeping bags, water containers, and even tents themselves joined the growing list of missing things.
“Beat any damned thing I ever saw,” Dale finished, leaning back in his chair. “But that’s still not the worst of it. There used to be rumors of a hermit living in the deep woods around here. Well about a week ago, I made the mistake of mentioning this to my assistant manager, Rick, and being the great woodsman, he sees himself as, the damned fool decided he would go looking for the ole bastard. Ricks an okay guy, but he’s young and full of himself, and he knows about as much about surviving in the woods, as I do about being a brain surgeon.” “Did he find anything?” Kara asked Dale. The man took off his hat and rubbed the top of his head. “Well let’s just say Rick’s been added to that list of things that have gone missing around here,” he said wringing his hat in his hands. “And if I don’t find him, who knows what will happen to this place.
Kara and I looked at each other. I was getting a sinking suspicion that I knew what it was I was here to find.
“What exactly is it you want me to find Dale?” I asked him hesitantly.
He laid his hat on the desk. “If you can, I would like for you to find my missing employee, and maybe while you’re at it, find where all the missing stuff is going.” I looked at the man then looked at Kara. Her eyes told me she understood exactly what I was thinking. This was far beyond anything I had ever done with my talent, and I had to be honest with Dale.
“Look Dale, I want to help you, but I don’t think you really understand what it is I do,” I told him. “I find lost wallets, misplaced jewelry, or other random items for people, and the only time I have ever looked for anything outside, was when my cousin lost his wedding ring in the back yard while he was ogling the neighbor’s wife while she was sunbathing, which is a whole story in and of itself by the way. The point is, I think this is a job for law enforcement, not an office worker with a talent that is probably more luck than anything.”
The poor man still just sat there looking at me with his hopeless expression. “That’s the thing Jack, the cops are just as baffled as I am, and some of them are better in the woods than me. I’m at the end of my rope here, and if you say your talent is just luck, well I can use a little bit of that right now.”
I didn’t really know what else to say. I felt for the guy. I really did, but I wasn’t sure if I could help him, and God only knows I wanted to. In the end, it came down to two things. One, there was a person lost in the woods, or worse dead. Not only did Dale need to know where Rick was and if he was ok, but the same went for Rick’s family. The second this was I didn’t want to disappoint Kara. She had thought enough of me and my talent, to shout it to the extremes of the internet, and I had step up for her.
“Alright Dale, I’ll give it a shot, but I can’t promise you anything,” I told him. He considered this for a moment. “Fair enough,” he said finally. “I can live with that.”
He pulled out a map of the grounds and showed us where everything had been happening. The vastness of the area only added to my despair, but I pushed the thought out of my mind. After we finished studying the map, Dale mentioned that it would probably be a good idea for us to setup camp in the affected area, so that maybe the thief would make an appearance, being that we would be the only campers in the vicinity.
With a game plan made, Kara and I headed back to the car, and drove to the site Dale had picked out for us. “I’m sorry I got you into this,” she told me. “If I had known what this was all about, I would never have let it get this far.” I smiled at her. “Don’t worry about it, Kara,” I said to her squeezing her hand. “There’s nothing for you to be sorry about. Besides, it’s not that I don’t mind helping Dale, I am just unsure of my ability to do it.” “I believe in you Jack,” she reassured me. “I know you’ll do your best.”
We arrived at the campsite a few minutes later, and I was surprised to see something at least was in my favor. Instead of a tent, Dale had set us up with a small cabin. We parked the car, and got out to inspect our accommodations for the night.
The structure wasn’t much bigger than a large tent, but it was hardened on three sides, with the fourth side being mostly screen. Inside were two cots and hanging from the ceiling, was a gas lantern. “This doesn’t look so bad,” I said looking around the cabin. Kara grinned, “I’ll remember that statement when you need to use the bathroom tonight and have to walk out into the woods.” I looked at her with disdain while she laughed like a mad woman.
We finished unpacking the car and setup a late picnic lunch. Once we were done eating, we began searching the woods in the immediate vicinity of camp.
I tried to be thorough, but there was just too much area, and everything looked the same. After a couple of hours, I was beginning to feel like all I was doing was wasting time. I sat down on a fallen long.
“This is no use,” I told Kara exasperated. She sat down next to me. “You can do this Babe,” she said putting her arm around me. “Trust me and believe in yourself. I believe in you.” She leaned in to kiss me, and as I leaned in to meet her, I saw it.
It was a faint trail beaten into the forest floor. “I think I have something,” I said excited. “Look.
I pointed to the trail. “Jack you did it,” she said kissing me. I have said before that I feel like my talent is more luck than anything, this was why. I would have never seen the trail if I hadn’t sat down on the log.
We inspected the trail for a few minutes. In one direction, it led back towards camp, and we were both fairly confident that this was the trail the thief had been using to get to the campground.
We followed the trail deeper into the woods. After another little while, we came to a massive cliff face.
“Looks like the end of the road,” Kara said looking up at the top of the cliff. It went off in both directions for as far as we could see, and rose above of us at least sixty feet straight up. There didn’t look to be many handholds, so climbing it was out of the question. “Let’s look around,” I said. “Maybe we’ll get lucky again.”
We started down one direction, finding nothing but sheer rock on one side, and forest on the other. After a while, we went back the other direction and it wasn’t much better. My lifted spirits from my discovery of the trail, were starting to crash and burn.
I picked up a stone. “Damnit,” I yelled as I hurled it at the rocky face of the cliff. It hit with a loud report. “Is someone out there?” a faint voice called.
Kara and I looked at each other with wide eyes. “Did you hear that?” we both asked in unison. “Hello out there,” came the voice again. “I need help.” The voice was coming from a little further up the way. “Hold tight,” I called back. “We’re coming.”
We followed the sound of the voice, and after a couple of minutes, we arrived at a large group of boulders, bunched at the foot of the cliff. “Hello, we’re here,” Kara called out. “Where are you?” “In the cave,” the voice replied. “You have to climb up and over the boulders. The entrance is behind them.”
“Maybe you should wait right here,” I told Kara. “That way, if someone really does live here, you can keep a lookout for them.” She shook her head. “What if you need me?” she asked. “I’ll call you, but until then, stay here and keep watch. I would hate to be blindsided by some creepy ass mountain man.” She sighed, disappointed. “Alright, but be careful.” I kissed her, then climbed up the boulders.
Once on top, I saw that there was a hollow space behind the rocks along with the entrance to the cave. It was almost like someone placed the boulders there to purposely hide the cave from passers-by. I climbed back down and approached the entrance. It was dark as shit in there, and I hadn’t even thought to bring a flashlight. The light on my crappy iPhone would just have to do. I turned it on and entered the darkness.
I walked for about a minute when I started to come across empty food wrappers, then as I entered a large chamber, I found the rest of the missing hoard of camping items. “Holy shit!” I exclaimed looking at it all. Dale sure wasn’t kidding when he said a lot of stuff had went missing. “Hey over there,” the voice said. “Get me out of here.”
I walked to where the voice was. There was another chamber, but the entrance was blocked off by a large rock. “Please tell me you’re Rick?” I said to the man behind the rock. “Yeah,” he said. “It’s me. You search and rescue?” I grinned. “Something like that. How in the hell did you get in there?” “Damned bitch grabbed me while I was in the woods, then trapped me in here. Look man, if I were you, I would make this quick. If she comes back and finds you here, there’s no telling what she’ll do.”
I used the phone’s light to survey the rock. While I did this, I wondered who the “she” was that had brought Rick here. “I might be able to tip this rock over, but I am going to need help,” I told him. “Hold on.”
I dialed Kara. Considering I was in a cave, the call surprisingly connected. I told her the situation, and she said she was on her way. In the meantime, I would try to get some more answers from Rick.
“So, you’re telling me some lady abducted you and trapped you in this cave? You sound like a pretty big guy based on Dale’s description of you. She must have been some woman.” Rick chuckled. “You wouldn’t believe me if I told you. How much longer till your friend gets here. I really would like to be gone before she comes back.” “She should be here soon,” I told him.
Shortly, I heard footsteps coming from the entrance of the cave. “I’d say you found the missing stuff.” Kara’s voice said from behind us. Look at all this shit. Is that Rick?” “Yes it’s me,” the voice on the other side of the rock said impatiently. “Now can we move this thing? I’m telling you guys, we do not want to be here when she comes back.” Kara looked at me with one eyebrow raised. “She? Who is she?” I shrugged. “That’s what I’ve been trying to find out.” “Guys please. Can we do this already?” “Right,” I said. “We need some rope or something to put around the top of the rock.” “I got you,” Kara said.
In a moment she returned with a length of tie down strap. I positioned it around the top of the rock and Kara and I pulled both ends tight. “Okay, we’ll pull, and you push Rick,” I called. “Hopefully this works. On the count of three, one, two, three.” We pulled hard. At first there didn’t seem to be any movement, but then it started to tip. “It’s going,” Rick shouted. “Hope you guys are out of the way.” We let go of the strap and moved out of the way of the falling rock.
Rick’s large frame crawled out of the opening and joined us. In the light from the phones, I could see his clothes were fairly ragged, and he looked like he’d had his ass kicked. “A woman did that to you?” Kara asked him. “Later,” Rick told her. “Let’s go ASAP.”
We turned to leave the cave, but were stopped dead in our tracks. Rick’s mystery “she” stood there blocking our way.
Rick had said I wouldn’t believe him about his captor, and as I stood there looking at the huge, hair covered, seven foot tall figure, I wasn’t sure to feel disbelief, or just be plain scared shitless. “Are you fucking kidding me?” Kara said from beside me. “It’s an effin sasquatch.” It was an effin sasquatch, and she looked pissed off. “Oh shit,” Rick said. The creature roared with rage. Yep, she was definitely pissed.
I didn’t have a clue what to do here. I had just barely found out ghosts were real, and at least there was a way to reason with a ghost, but there didn’t appear to be any reasoning with this thing. She just stood there roaring. “Rick, you’ve spent some time with her, what do we do?” Kara asked him. Rick scoffed. “Look at me. Does it look like we had afternoon tea and shit?” Rick was right. He looked more like he’d been worked over by madam big-foot.
Despite the seriousness of the situation, the thought of a big burly guy like Rick getting man handled by a female sasquatch, was kinda funny. She probably just wanted some loving, and he was the closest thing she could find to mister big-foot, but before I could ponder on the image any further, the lady of the hour picked up a cooler and hurled it at us. The three of us scrambled out of the way of it, and beer, lunch meat, pickles, etc. went everywhere.
“She’s acting like a crazy ex-girlfriend,” Kara yelled. “What’s her problem?” I looked in Kara’s direction. I have always heard women see things that men don’t sometimes, and what she had just said, made me return to my previous thought. I had thought it a funny joke that Rick had been the victim of a lonely, amorous lady-squatch, but what if that was exactly the case?
“Rick,” I yelled at him. “Was she violent with you from the beginning?” He didn’t answer at first. “You know,” he said. “She started off nice, hugging on me and rubbing me like I was a damned dog or something, but it was when I tried to leave, that she got mad and locked me up. I figured she was trying to keep me as a pet.” I shook my head. Dale was right about Rick. He didn’t know crap about the outdoors, but apparently he didn’t know crap about women either. “She wasn’t trying to make you her pet you nimrod,” I yelled at him. “She was trying to mate with you.”
It must have taken a moment for this to sink in for Rick, because it was a good bit before he responded. “You mean she wanted to screw me?” he asked shocked. “That’s exactly what he’s saying,” Kara told him. “And apparently she didn’t take rejection very well.” “That’s the understatement of the year,” he said.
I couldn’t believe we were having this conversation right now. A pissed off ape lady was about to rip us all to pieces, and we were discussing domestic issues, but something was coming to me. “I think I have a plan,” I said. “Rick, since she sees you as her boy toy, we’ll try and get her attention long enough for you to get by her. Then once you do it, get her attention and see if she will follow you out. After that, we’ll leave. Once everyone’s out of the cave, maybe we can all make a run for it.”
“I don’t know if I like that idea,” he said. “She’s pretty quick.” “Well hopefully your desire to not play sugar daddy for a sexually frustrated big-foot for the rest of your life, will cause you to be quicker,” I told him. “It’s all I got so take it or leave it.” Rick thought on it. “Fine,” he said finally. “Let’s do it.”
I found Kara’s hand, and squeezed it. “Ready?” I asked her. She laughed nervously. “Not really,” she said. “But what can you do?”
Together we approached the creature, yelling and screaming at her. I hoped the creature wouldn’t kill us, but luck was on our side. She turned her full attention on us and moved to meet our approach. As planned, this opened up things up for Rick to be able to get around her, but that’s where the plan went to shit.
Instead of getting around the creature and gaining her attention so that he could lead the sasquatch away from us, Rick just bolted. The big-foot took one passing glance at him, and returned her focus on us, me in particular. “What the hell?” I asked Kara. “Why isn’t she following him?” “I think we screwed up,” she replied. “She saw Rick run away like a coward, and because you showed aggression to her, she’s decided you’re the better mate.”
I just stared at her, jaw on the floor. “What can I say?” she said to me. “She has good taste.” I personally didn’t see any humor in the situation, but we had to get away, and I think I knew what to do. “Kara, you said she was acting like a crazy ex, well let’s play that up. I’ll give her what she wants, and then you play crazy new girlfriend and confront her.” She looked at me skeptically. “How is that supposed to work?” she asked. “She could use me as a toothpick. How am I going to intimidate her?” I smiled at her. “You’ve been possessed by an angry ghost, and let me tell you, if you had any cognizance during that, you know how to be intimidating.” Kara rolled her eyes. “I’m not too sure about this, but I’ll try.” I smiled at her. “You can do it, besides the worst case scenario is I live in a cave for the rest of my life and learn to braid sasquatch hair.” Kara was still not amused. “Well here goes,” I said.
I approached the creature. “Hey sweetheart, I’m Jack. Aren’t you a gorgeous lady?” The big-foot looked at me confused, then she looked back at Kara and uttered a warning grunt. I motioned for Kara to stay back. “Don’t worry about her darling, you’re the one I want.” I was now standing within arm’s reach of the sasquatch. She looked at me, still unsure. “Come on, it’s okay. I just want to give you a big ole hug.” I reached out and put my arms around her. She stiffened at first, but then she relaxed and put her arms around me. She started making a cooing sound as she stroked my back. I patted her back in return. “You’re so sweet,” I told her with my best lovey voice.
For all of you that have seen Harry and the Hendersons, this must sound funny as hell, but it was freaking terrifying. One wrong move, and this furry lady could squash me like a bad zit, but I kept up the act. I should have gotten an Oscar for my performance. I had her eating out of my hand. Now it was time for Kara to join the show. I gave her a thumbs up.
“Get your hands off of him you hairy BITCH,” she yelled from behind me. The lady-squatch raised her head in Kara’s direction, making a confused sound. “You heard me,” she yelled at us. “He’s mine.”
Something whizzed over my head, hit the creature between the eyes, and fell to the floor. It was an unopened beer. The creature touched its head, looked down at the can, then looked back at Kara. She roared as she threw me aside, then stormed off towards my girlfriend. I looked at Kara. I could see the terror in her eyes, but there was also determination. She threw another beer at the sasquatch. It hit her in the chest and fell to the floor, exploding from impact with the ground. The sudden bursting of the beer surprised the creature and she stumbled backwards, falling over the scattered camping gear. I used the opportunity to grab Kara and we started for the cave exit.
The big-foot roared with fury, got to its feet, and began to come after us. As hard as she could, Kara threw her last beer at the creature’s feet. Its explosion drove the sasquatch back once again as we made the exit. Without even skipping a beat, we scaled the boulders and jumped off the other side.
We continued running in the direction of the campground, but I took a moment to look back. I know, this goes against everything they teach you in horror movies, but I had to.
She stood on top of the rocks watching our escape, and I swear she had a look of sorrow on her face. I have to admit, I felt bad for her. She was just a lonely creature who wanted a companion. I felt the same way before I started dating Kara, although I would have never abducted someone, but hey I’m not a sasquatch either.
Needless to say, she didn’t follow, and when we eventually got back to the campground, Dale and Rick were waiting on us.
“Glad to see you guys got out,” Rick said to us grinning. “No thanks to you,” Kara told him. She looked at Dale. “Your assistant here took the first chance he got, to escape, rather than help us all get away. We could’ve been killed by her.” Dale turned to Rick. “What’s she talking about?” he asked him. Rick shook his head. “They’re just mad I made it out before they did.” I couldn’t believe this guy. “No, we’re mad because we saved your ass from being a lifetime concubine to a horny ape woman, then left us there to deal with her once you had your chance to bolt.”
Rick scoffed. “Whatever,” he said. “You weren’t the ones that spent days trapped in a cave by a damned monster. What did you expect me to do?”
“That’s enough,” Dale said before I or Kara could say anything in response. “Rick, get your shit together and leave my property. These good folks put their lives on the line to help me, not to mention save your ass, and you didn’t even have the decency to stick by them when they needed you. I want you gone now.” Rick threw his hands up. “Fine, I didn’t need this job anyway,” he said.
We watched as he walked to his truck and sped off, slinging gravel. After a minute, we went with Dale back to his office and told him the whole story. “I just can’t believe it,” he said. “My daddy always said they were real, but we all just thought he was about halfway crazy. Question is, what am I going to do about her?” I looked at Kara, who shrugged. She wouldn’t be any help with this, so I stepped out on a limb.
“I don’t think she wants to hurt anyone,” I said. “She’s just lonely. Maybe you should make friends with her.” They both looked at me like I was crazy, but I pushed on. “For whatever reason, she’s alone in this area, and being alone sucks for anyone, man or sasquatch. I think she started taking things out of hunger at first, then out of curiosity. As far as Rick goes, he’s a big hairy guy, she just mistook him for one of her own kind. So take her a gift once in a while and make friends with her. Eventually, maybe she can become a valuable asset to your campground.” Dale thought it over for a moment. “Well I guess it’s worth a shot,” he said. “Anything is better than having to close this place down.”
With things settled, Kara and I left the office to go back to our campsite. We spent the rest of the evening enjoying the great outdoors, and that night we did a fair amount of star gazing. Other than our brush with the lady-squatch, I could see what Kara loved so much about camping. There’s a lot of beauty out there.
On the ride home the next morning, we played more car games, sang, and laughed about our time with the hairy woman of Crazy Acres Camping. Kara said she was looking forward to the next camping trip, and that with my talent, there was no telling what we would find next time. I laughed and told her I planned to stick to finding the easy stuff from here on out, but as I have said in the past, I think my days of finding the easy things, are over.
My name is Jack, and I find things. Key’s, jewelry, the occasional ghost, even a sasquatch, I find it all, but this time I found out I kinda like camping. Yeah I know, who would have thought.
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2020.09.15 01:04 Whatsgoingon83 Brother's "Girlfriend" seems to be stalking me.

This all started a year and a half ago. She came over one day and my Brother introduced her. Everything seemed really fake and I expect everyone already knew her for a long time. After about 6 months she completely stopped talking to me. My Brother said she didn't like me, however, she never once even had a decent conversation for more than a minute with me. So then I ask about her to my Family because we all live under one roof. My Brother doesn't really give any detail about her or my Mom. I'm completely left in the dark here. So she lives by my Dad who is pretty far away but she drives over every night for over a year at this point. Obviously I'm starting to get convinced she's my Dad's affair partner but I'm getting no answers. My Dad is remarried to someone else but I have heard he is unfaithful. My Brother's "Girlfriend" has a kid and I even asked my Mom if he is my Dad's love child or something? I'm like what's going on here? Are you trolling me?
So then I started to hear rumors that the lady hooked up with my Brother-in-law. So then I started to wonder if this is a cover for him. Basically I'm like, wow, I want no part of this mess. So I'm guessing they are using my Brother as a way for things to blow over so what ever really is going on can end up working without any consequences.
I hope this makes some sense but I'm trying to make sense of what doesn't make any sense!
TL;DR I think my Brother is a beard to cover for my Dad or Brother-in-law. She seems to have some grudge because she doesn't want the affair to be found out although no one cares about her. I feel like I'm basically being stalked. She has keys to the house and shows up whenever she wants. If she is with my Brother for real then whatever but all signs point that she shouldn't be here.
Edit: Wondering what I should do at this point? Lady basically is still coming around snooping and acting weird. I can't tell if she is psychotic or what? She is on our family plan and knows our internet passwords and stuff. There is no way she is legit. She has brought her kid around. HORRIBLE parent.
Edit 2: I think I was right about them trying to get things to blow over. My Dad is just her "Sugar Daddy" and my Brother is basically her beard. My Sister and Brother-in-law seem to be the ones arranging this "show". I think my Brother-in-law has moved on and my Sister is not letting go. My Mother-in-law wanted the Marriage to end at one point and I'm not sure if his Family even speaks much to him anymore. My Brother-in-law got a lot of sympathy by complaining about how hard his Father was on him growing up by my Mom when they started dating. Truth be told the man child has been spoiled by my Family for half his life. I don't even know if he could survive without my Family. I think the same is applied to the "other woman". Basically my Mom is allowing this "show" to continue and there is no reason the "other woman" should be here harassing me. I honestly don't see how this is going to work in the long run. I expect an ugly divorce or maybe even a fight to annul the marriage and say it was a sham. Basically my Brother-in-law deserves nothing IMO, yes, my Sister is the breadwinner but he shouldn't be able to live a privileged life for taking advantage of us. The guy is nothing but a freeloader to me. There are rumors that this woman has been around since day one and could be something taboo. I don't know anymore. Sigh. Apparently things are in the process of getting a move on it with their supposed plan. She basically is running around not knowing what to do though. Honestly I don't know what else she wants? She has been literally having her ass kissed by my Family. I can't talk about this with my Family because they don't want to let the cat out of the bag. Basically this has affected my life for over a decade at this point so I have to think about me. I really want no part of this "show" and I'm the only one with no involvement in my close Family. They are trying to bring me into it but it has nothing to do with me. They are sick to even think about dragging me into it.
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2020.09.10 06:28 ThrowRA-celestialash My partner keeps saying I will/should cheat on him bc I made an account on a Sugar Baby website in college.

Background: My partner and I started dating in high school, and took things long distance when I went to college. While I was there I stole about a grand from my mother (who, while emotionally/physically abusive, was helping me pay for school) as I was entering the payment on the schools website. Idk why, but I assumed she would let me keep it.
After a while she asks/demands the money back, and in the midst of a panic attack (I had pretty much spent it all at this point, and didn’t make enough at the local taco bell to pay her back) I made an account on a sugar baby website. By the time it asked me for verification, I had decided against it because I didn’t want to cheat on my partner and it made me feel icky to consider selling my body like that (no hate to swers).
My mom made me pay her back in increments from what little income I made through my job and I didn’t think about it until I was visiting my partner for spring vacation of 2016 and he looked through my internet history in the middle of the night.
The next morning was horrible. He was holding me and crying and asking what he did for me to do this to him. I explained as much as I could (after he asked for an explanation) while trying not to invalidate his feelings. Through a lot of talking and discussion, we agreed to continue with our relationship, knowing that any other slight indication of me doing something like that would be the end of our relationship.
Since then he has made lots of comments about me cheating. For example if I mentioned wanting a motorcycle, he would say something like “maybe you should get your sugar daddy to buy it for you”. This hurt a lot, but I didn’t want to be like “the way your dealing with this is uncomfortable for me” and make it about me, you know? Or if he had to tell me bad news he would say “idk you might freak out and get a sugar daddy again”
We talked about it once, where I told him it hurt me but I understood it was how he dealt with it, so I am open to having conversations about it but I don’t want to keep being insulted with little throwaway things like that
Current situation: Fast forward to now, we’re living together and have a 2 year old son, and while the comments have died down, hes still making them occasionally.
With all the fires going on where we are (west coast, USA) we were talking about getting a car in case we need to evacuate, so I started looking some up. I was talking to my SIL who said she would help us buy a car, so maybe I was thinking above our means. I was really excited and showing my partner the different cars and asking him what the different features meant.
I was looking at $15-$25k cars and he thought it was too expensive, that we couldnt afford a loan for it so we needed to buy a car for a full price of $1-$2k (we have roughly $3,500 in savings), and ended it by saying “so unless you want to go ahead break up with me and marry a rich guy...” and he sort of trailed off after that. I was really hurt and upset so I went to give our son a bath.
My question is, am I morally allowed to ask him to stop saying that I’m going to run off and get a sugar daddy just because we’re low income? Or should I just put up with it bc its how he deals with it?
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2020.09.08 23:09 cdf21882 I Found a Healthy Respect for the Outdoors.

My name is Jack. I find things. Usually, I find things like keys and other random shit for people, but recently I have branched off into more unusual items. Case in point, when I helped my new GF Kara look for her grandmother’s locket. I found it alright, but I also found the pissed off, child, ghost of her Great-Aunt Patricia too.
Speaking of Kara, what a little vixen. For those of you wondering how things with her are going, they’re great. We’ve been spending lots of time together, and now that her house is free of angry spirits, she has decided that it would make an awesome B&B, and I can’t agree more. Can you believe Great-Aunt Patricia is even on board with the idea?
Let me tell you, that kid, she has really turned over a new leaf. If only someone had given her a shiny, new pretty sooner. Am I right? She and Kara are like two peas in pod now. Kara says she’s like the little sister she never had, which is weird considering she’s her aunt and a ghost, but stranger things, right?
So, enough about all that, let’s get down to the nitty gritty. I mentioned at the end of my last post how I had figured out I could use my talent to find more than just everyday items. Followed by a statement about helping anyone find things, just to let me know and all that. Well to be perfectly frank, I kinda made that declaration in jest. I know, assy move. It’s not that I don’t want to help you guys, but after the locket debacle, I really just wanted to stick to finding mundane stuff. I said what I did, just trying to be nice since you put in the time and effort to read my post, but like Jeff Goldblum said, “Life finds a way.” Let’s just say it found a way to bite me in the ass for making false statements, and it used my sweetheart Kara to do it.
Apparently, she’s on reddit too, and she has a huge following. Well, long story short, Kara came across my post, and not only took my words to heart, but thought it was really sweet how I put myself out there like that to help people. Then, supportive gf and all, she went on to share my post with all of her reddit friends and followers, FB friends, and well you can see where this is going.
When Kara told me what she had done, and how proud of me she was, I didn’t have the heart to tell her I was only being nice, so I sucked it up, owned my mistake, and here we are; a second post. That’s right, I have more scary shit to tell, and guess what? It’s a camping story.
I will put this out here right now, I am not an outdoors kind of guy. I respect the outdoors, and people that are outdoorsy, but it isn’t for me. As you know, I recently found out that ghosts are real, and if they are real, there is no telling what the hell else is real, especially in the outdoors.
So, a few days ago, Kara caught me in the break-room at work. She was smiling really big and looked kind of excited, so it made me feel all warm and fuzzy inside. She has a great smile by the way. She told me she had some good news. I asked her what it was, and when she told me, let’s just say my warm fuzziness disappeared pretty damn quickly.
She told me she has a friend on reddit named Dale, and he owns a public campground a couple of hours away. Before she could go any farther, I told her no way I don’t do camping or anything else in the out of doors.
“But Babe, I love camping,” she said all doe-eyed. “Besides, Dale needs you to help him find something.” I looked at her with my best “do I have to” face, but her expression told me this was an argument I wasn’t going to win. I let out a big sigh. “Okay, what does he need me to find?” Victorious, she smiled wryly. “He said he would fill us in when we got there this weekend.”
Word of advice for all of you guys out there, stay single, women can be trouble.
I stuck my tongue out her and went back to my desk.
In all honesty though, I wasn’t mad at Kara for pushing me to help Dale. She is one of the best people I know, and as I’ve said before, I would do anything for her. Besides, who could stay mad with that amazing smile of hers, I’m just saying.
Saturday morning, I pulled up in front of Kara’s house. As I got out of the car, I noticed Aunt Patricia looking down at me from one of the second-floor windows. We waved to one another, and I headed up the walk and went inside.
Kara was in the kitchen making coffee, and she was in full blown camping mode. She wore a pair of khaki shorts that were rolled up at the legs, and what I can say was the most disturbingly, appropriate t-shirt I could have imagined for a camping trip; a Camp Crystal Lake counselor shirt.
She greeted me with a kiss. “Morning handsome. You ready for your first camping trip?” she asked.
“Not particularly,” I told her. “Interesting wardrobe choice by the way.” She grinned maliciously. “I thought you would appreciate the humor of my shirt.” I rolled my eyes. “I swear, if your friend mentions anything about looking for missing campers in the deep, dark woods, I’m out.” “Poor guy,” Kara said with a pouty face. “I’ll protect you from the big, bad monsters in the woods.” She busted out laughing. I just stood there mentally updating the list of deal breakers for my next girlfriend.
Before long, we had the car loaded and were on our way to Dale’s campground. It was our first extended car ride, and it was a blast. We spent a while playing Guess That Tune. For anyone that has seen Twilight Zone: The Movie, just know, our game at least, didn’t end with a horrible death, just Kara winning nearly every round. Besides playing car games, we found we both have a passion for car karaoke, and just so you know, I’m the better singer.
Around noon, we arrived at our destination. I took one look at the sign and shook my head; it read Crazy Acres Camping. Kara, on the other hand, was amused and said she thought it was a cute name. The thing ladies think are cute, I swear.
We drove down a winding, tree-lined road and parked in front of a rustic looking building. The sign hanging above the door read Camp Office. Kara and I were just getting out of the car, when a man rode up on a four-wheeler.
He was in his early to mid-fifties, and he wore the quintessential camp uniform: boonie hat, khaki shorts, and olive drab polo with the camp name on the pocket. “If this wasn’t Dale,” I thought. “I would eat tree bark.” The man dismounted and held out his hand. “Afternoon folks. Thanks for coming. I’m Dale.”
Nailed it.
We both shook hands with him, and then he showed us into the office. The inside was just as rustic as the outside, and the walls were adorned with all sorts of woodsy items, the grandest of all being a massive moose head mounted above the desk.
Being a reddit friend, Kara and Dale only had a passing acquaintance, so we spent the first little while making general chitchat. Dale was obviously a nice guy, and he exuded a sort of crazy uncle vibe. Who doesn’t love a crazy uncle?
The property had been in Dale’s family for a long time, but it wasn’t until he took it over, that it became a public campground.
“I grew up loving the woods, and loving camping,” he told us. “It was only natural for me to share that love with as many people as I could.” Kara said she understood completely, but I didn’t get it at all. I guess I was just too fond of AC and indoor plumbing. There was a little small talk, then we got down to brass tacks.
Over the last couple of months, Dale had received numerous reports from campers who had things come up missing from campsites in a certain area of the grounds. It started out as food, which wasn’t too out of the ordinary due to the amount of wildlife in the surrounding woods. “Raccoons can be some damn crafty SOBs,” Dale told us. Then things escalated. Entire coolers filled with food, drinks, etc. started disappearing, and after that, everything from hammocks, sleeping bags, water containers, and even tents themselves joined the growing list of missing things.
“Beat any damned thing I ever saw,” Dale finished, leaning back in his chair. “But that’s still not the worst of it. There used to be rumors of a hermit living in the deep woods around here. Well about a week ago, I made the mistake of mentioning this to my assistant manager, Rick, and being the great woodsman, he sees himself as, the damned fool decided he would go looking for the ole bastard. Ricks an okay guy, but he’s young and full of himself, and he knows about as much about surviving in the woods, as I do about being a brain surgeon.” “Did he find anything?” Kara asked Dale. The man took off his hat and rubbed the top of his head. “Well let’s just say Rick’s been added to that list of things that have gone missing around here,” he said wringing his hat in his hands. “And if I don’t find him, who knows what will happen to this place.
Kara and I looked at each other. I was getting a sinking suspicion that I knew what it was I was here to find.
“What exactly is it you want me to find Dale?” I asked him hesitantly.
He laid his hat on the desk. “If you can, I would like for you to find my missing employee, and maybe while you’re at it, find where all the missing stuff is going.” I looked at the man then looked at Kara. Her eyes told me she understood exactly what I was thinking. This was far beyond anything I had ever done with my talent, and I had to be honest with Dale.
“Look Dale, I want to help you, but I don’t think you really understand what it is I do,” I told him. “I find lost wallets, misplaced jewelry, or other random items for people, and the only time I have ever looked for anything outside, was when my cousin lost his wedding ring in the back yard while he was ogling the neighbor’s wife while she was sunbathing, which is a whole story in and of itself by the way. The point is, I think this is a job for law enforcement, not an office worker with a talent that is probably more luck than anything.”
The poor man still just sat there looking at me with his hopeless expression. “That’s the thing Jack, the cops are just as baffled as I am, and some of them are better in the woods than me. I’m at the end of my rope here, and if you say your talent is just luck, well I can use a little bit of that right now.”
I didn’t really know what else to say. I felt for the guy. I really did, but I wasn’t sure if I could help him, and God only knows I wanted to. In the end, it came down to two things. One, there was a person lost in the woods, or worse dead. Not only did Dale need to know where Rick was and if he was ok, but the same went for Rick’s family. The second this was I didn’t want to disappoint Kara. She had thought enough of me and my talent, to shout it to the extremes of the internet, and I had step up for her.
“Alright Dale, I’ll give it a shot, but I can’t promise you anything,” I told him. He considered this for a moment. “Fair enough,” he said finally. “I can live with that.”
He pulled out a map of the grounds and showed us where everything had been happening. The vastness of the area only added to my despair, but I pushed the thought out of my mind. After we finished studying the map, Dale mentioned that it would probably be a good idea for us to setup camp in the affected area, so that maybe the thief would make an appearance, being that we would be the only campers in the vicinity.
With a game plan made, Kara and I headed back to the car, and drove to the site Dale had picked out for us. “I’m sorry I got you into this,” she told me. “If I had known what this was all about, I would never have let it get this far.” I smiled at her. “Don’t worry about it, Kara,” I said to her squeezing her hand. “There’s nothing for you to be sorry about. Besides, it’s not that I don’t mind helping Dale, I am just unsure of my ability to do it.” “I believe in you Jack,” she reassured me. “I know you’ll do your best.”
We arrived at the campsite a few minutes later, and I was surprised to see something at least was in my favor. Instead of a tent, Dale had set us up with a small cabin. We parked the car, and got out to inspect our accommodations for the night.
The structure wasn’t much bigger than a large tent, but it was hardened on three sides, with the fourth side being mostly screen. Inside were two cots and hanging from the ceiling, was a gas lantern. “This doesn’t look so bad,” I said looking around the cabin. Kara grinned, “I’ll remember that statement when you need to use the bathroom tonight and have to walk out into the woods.” I looked at her with disdain while she laughed like a mad woman.
We finished unpacking the car and setup a late picnic lunch. Once we were done eating, we began searching the woods in the immediate vicinity of camp.
I tried to be thorough, but there was just too much area, and everything looked the same. After a couple of hours, I was beginning to feel like all I was doing was wasting time. I sat down on a fallen long.
“This is no use,” I told Kara exasperated. She sat down next to me. “You can do this Babe,” she said putting her arm around me. “Trust me and believe in yourself. I believe in you.” She leaned in to kiss me, and as I leaned in to meet her, I saw it.
It was a faint trail beaten into the forest floor. “I think I have something,” I said excited. “Look.
I pointed to the trail. “Jack you did it,” she said kissing me. I have said before that I feel like my talent is more luck than anything, this was why. I would have never seen the trail if I hadn’t sat down on the log.
We inspected the trail for a few minutes. In one direction, it led back towards camp, and we were both fairly confident that this was the trail the thief had been using to get to the campground.
We followed the trail deeper into the woods. After another little while, we came to a massive cliff face.
“Looks like the end of the road,” Kara said looking up at the top of the cliff. It went off in both directions for as far as we could see, and rose above of us at least sixty feet straight up. There didn’t look to be many handholds, so climbing it was out of the question. “Let’s look around,” I said. “Maybe we’ll get lucky again.”
We started down one direction, finding nothing but sheer rock on one side, and forest on the other. After a while, we went back the other direction and it wasn’t much better. My lifted spirits from my discovery of the trail, were starting to crash and burn.
I picked up a stone. “Damnit,” I yelled as I hurled it at the rocky face of the cliff. It hit with a loud report. “Is someone out there?” a faint voice called.
Kara and I looked at each other with wide eyes. “Did you hear that?” we both asked in unison. “Hello out there,” came the voice again. “I need help.” The voice was coming from a little further up the way. “Hold tight,” I called back. “We’re coming.”
We followed the sound of the voice, and after a couple of minutes, we arrived at a large group of boulders, bunched at the foot of the cliff. “Hello, we’re here,” Kara called out. “Where are you?” “In the cave,” the voice replied. “You have to climb up and over the boulders. The entrance is behind them.”
“Maybe you should wait right here,” I told Kara. “That way, if someone really does live here, you can keep a lookout for them.” She shook her head. “What if you need me?” she asked. “I’ll call you, but until then, stay here and keep watch. I would hate to be blindsided by some creepy ass mountain man.” She sighed, disappointed. “Alright, but be careful.” I kissed her, then climbed up the boulders.
Once on top, I saw that there was a hollow space behind the rocks along with the entrance to the cave. It was almost like someone placed the boulders there to purposely hide the cave from passers-by. I climbed back down and approached the entrance. It was dark as shit in there, and I hadn’t even thought to bring a flashlight. The light on my crappy iPhone would just have to do. I turned it on and entered the darkness.
I walked for about a minute when I started to come across empty food wrappers, then as I entered a large chamber, I found the rest of the missing hoard of camping items. “Holy shit!” I exclaimed looking at it all. Dale sure wasn’t kidding when he said a lot of stuff had went missing. “Hey over there,” the voice said. “Get me out of here.”
I walked to where the voice was. There was another chamber, but the entrance was blocked off by a large rock. “Please tell me you’re Rick?” I said to the man behind the rock. “Yeah,” he said. “It’s me. You search and rescue?” I grinned. “Something like that. How in the hell did you get in there?” “Damned bitch grabbed me while I was in the woods, then trapped me in here. Look man, if I were you, I would make this quick. If she comes back and finds you here, there’s no telling what she’ll do.”
I used the phone’s light to survey the rock. While I did this, I wondered who the “she” was that had brought Rick here. “I might be able to tip this rock over, but I am going to need help,” I told him. “Hold on.”
I dialed Kara. Considering I was in a cave, the call surprisingly connected. I told her the situation, and she said she was on her way. In the meantime, I would try to get some more answers from Rick.
“So, you’re telling me some lady abducted you and trapped you in this cave? You sound like a pretty big guy based on Dale’s description of you. She must have been some woman.” Rick chuckled. “You wouldn’t believe me if I told you. How much longer till your friend gets here. I really would like to be gone before she comes back.” “She should be here soon,” I told him.
Shortly, I heard footsteps coming from the entrance of the cave. “I’d say you found the missing stuff.” Kara’s voice said from behind us. Look at all this shit. Is that Rick?” “Yes it’s me,” the voice on the other side of the rock said impatiently. “Now can we move this thing? I’m telling you guys, we do not want to be here when she comes back.” Kara looked at me with one eyebrow raised. “She? Who is she?” I shrugged. “That’s what I’ve been trying to find out.” “Guys please. Can we do this already?” “Right,” I said. “We need some rope or something to put around the top of the rock.” “I got you,” Kara said.
In a moment she returned with a length of tie down strap. I positioned it around the top of the rock and Kara and I pulled both ends tight. “Okay, we’ll pull, and you push Rick,” I called. “Hopefully this works. On the count of three, one, two, three.” We pulled hard. At first there didn’t seem to be any movement, but then it started to tip. “It’s going,” Rick shouted. “Hope you guys are out of the way.” We let go of the strap and moved out of the way of the falling rock.
Rick’s large frame crawled out of the opening and joined us. In the light from the phones, I could see his clothes were fairly ragged, and he looked like he’d had his ass kicked. “A woman did that to you?” Kara asked him. “Later,” Rick told her. “Let’s go ASAP.”
We turned to leave the cave, but were stopped dead in our tracks. Rick’s mystery “she” stood there blocking our way.
Rick had said I wouldn’t believe him about his captor, and as I stood there looking at the huge, hair covered, seven foot tall figure, I wasn’t sure to feel disbelief, or just be plain scared shitless. “Are you fucking kidding me?” Kara said from beside me. “It’s an effin sasquatch.” It was an effin sasquatch, and she looked pissed off. “Oh shit,” Rick said. The creature roared with rage. Yep, she was definitely pissed.
I didn’t have a clue what to do here. I had just barely found out ghosts were real, and at least there was a way to reason with a ghost, but there didn’t appear to be any reasoning with this thing. She just stood there roaring. “Rick, you’ve spent some time with her, what do we do?” Kara asked him. Rick scoffed. “Look at me. Does it look like we had afternoon tea and shit?” Rick was right. He looked more like he’d been worked over by madam big-foot.
Despite the seriousness of the situation, the thought of a big burly guy like Rick getting man handled by a female sasquatch, was kinda funny. She probably just wanted some loving, and he was the closest thing she could find to mister big-foot, but before I could ponder on the image any further, the lady of the hour picked up a cooler and hurled it at us. The three of us scrambled out of the way of it, and beer, lunch meat, pickles, etc. went everywhere.
“She’s acting like a crazy ex-girlfriend,” Kara yelled. “What’s her problem?” I looked in Kara’s direction. I have always heard women see things that men don’t sometimes, and what she had just said, made me return to my previous thought. I had thought it a funny joke that Rick had been the victim of a lonely, amorous lady-squatch, but what if that was exactly the case?
“Rick,” I yelled at him. “Was she violent with you from the beginning?” He didn’t answer at first. “You know,” he said. “She started off nice, hugging on me and rubbing me like I was a damned dog or something, but it was when I tried to leave, that she got mad and locked me up. I figured she was trying to keep me as a pet.” I shook my head. Dale was right about Rick. He didn’t know crap about the outdoors, but apparently he didn’t know crap about women either. “She wasn’t trying to make you her pet you nimrod,” I yelled at him. “She was trying to mate with you.”
It must have taken a moment for this to sink in for Rick, because it was a good bit before he responded. “You mean she wanted to screw me?” he asked shocked. “That’s exactly what he’s saying,” Kara told him. “And apparently she didn’t take rejection very well.” “That’s the understatement of the year,” he said.
I couldn’t believe we were having this conversation right now. A pissed off ape lady was about to rip us all to pieces, and we were discussing domestic issues, but something was coming to me. “I think I have a plan,” I said. “Rick, since she sees you as her boy toy, we’ll try and get her attention long enough for you to get by her. Then once you do it, get her attention and see if she will follow you out. After that, we’ll leave. Once everyone’s out of the cave, maybe we can all make a run for it.”
“I don’t know if I like that idea,” he said. “She’s pretty quick.” “Well hopefully your desire to not play sugar daddy for a sexually frustrated big-foot for the rest of your life, will cause you to be quicker,” I told him. “It’s all I got so take it or leave it.” Rick thought on it. “Fine,” he said finally. “Let’s do it.”
I found Kara’s hand, and squeezed it. “Ready?” I asked her. She laughed nervously. “Not really,” she said. “But what can you do?”
Together we approached the creature, yelling and screaming at her. I hoped the creature wouldn’t kill us, but luck was on our side. She turned her full attention on us and moved to meet our approach. As planned, this opened up things up for Rick to be able to get around her, but that’s where the plan went to shit.
Instead of getting around the creature and gaining her attention so that he could lead the sasquatch away from us, Rick just bolted. The big-foot took one passing glance at him, and returned her focus on us, me in particular. “What the hell?” I asked Kara. “Why isn’t she following him?” “I think we screwed up,” she replied. “She saw Rick run away like a coward, and because you showed aggression to her, she’s decided you’re the better mate.”
I just stared at her, jaw on the floor. “What can I say?” she said to me. “She has good taste.” I personally didn’t see any humor in the situation, but we had to get away, and I think I knew what to do. “Kara, you said she was acting like a crazy ex, well let’s play that up. I’ll give her what she wants, and then you play crazy new girlfriend and confront her.” She looked at me skeptically. “How is that supposed to work?” she asked. “She could use me as a toothpick. How am I going to intimidate her?” I smiled at her. “You’ve been possessed by an angry ghost, and let me tell you, if you had any cognizance during that, you know how to be intimidating.” Kara rolled her eyes. “I’m not too sure about this, but I’ll try.” I smiled at her. “You can do it, besides the worst case scenario is I live in a cave for the rest of my life and learn to braid sasquatch hair.” Kara was still not amused. “Well here goes,” I said.
I approached the creature. “Hey sweetheart, I’m Jack. Aren’t you a gorgeous lady?” The big-foot looked at me confused, then she looked back at Kara and uttered a warning grunt. I motioned for Kara to stay back. “Don’t worry about her darling, you’re the one I want.” I was now standing within arm’s reach of the sasquatch. She looked at me, still unsure. “Come on, it’s okay. I just want to give you a big ole hug.” I reached out and put my arms around her. She stiffened at first, but then she relaxed and put her arms around me. She started making a cooing sound as she stroked my back. I patted her back in return. “You’re so sweet,” I told her with my best lovey voice.
For all of you that have seen Harry and the Hendersons, this must sound funny as hell, but it was freaking terrifying. One wrong move, and this furry lady could squash me like a bad zit, but I kept up the act. I should have gotten an Oscar for my performance. I had her eating out of my hand. Now it was time for Kara to join the show. I gave her a thumbs up.
“Get your hands off of him you hairy BITCH,” she yelled from behind me. The lady-squatch raised her head in Kara’s direction, making a confused sound. “You heard me,” she yelled at us. “He’s mine.”
Something whizzed over my head, hit the creature between the eyes, and fell to the floor. It was an unopened beer. The creature touched its head, looked down at the can, then looked back at Kara. She roared as she threw me aside, then stormed off towards my girlfriend. I looked at Kara. I could see the terror in her eyes, but there was also determination. She threw another beer at the sasquatch. It hit her in the chest and fell to the floor, exploding from impact with the ground. The sudden bursting of the beer surprised the creature and she stumbled backwards, falling over the scattered camping gear. I used the opportunity to grab Kara and we started for the cave exit.
The big-foot roared with fury, got to its feet, and began to come after us. As hard as she could, Kara threw her last beer at the creature’s feet. Its explosion drove the sasquatch back once again as we made the exit. Without even skipping a beat, we scaled the boulders and jumped off the other side.
We continued running in the direction of the campground, but I took a moment to look back. I know, this goes against everything they teach you in horror movies, but I had to.
She stood on top of the rocks watching our escape, and I swear she had a look of sorrow on her face. I have to admit, I felt bad for her. She was just a lonely creature who wanted a companion. I felt the same way before I started dating Kara, although I would have never abducted someone, but hey I’m not a sasquatch either.
Needless to say, she didn’t follow, and when we eventually got back to the campground, Dale and Rick were waiting on us.
“Glad to see you guys got out,” Rick said to us grinning. “No thanks to you,” Kara told him. She looked at Dale. “Your assistant here took the first chance he got, to escape, rather than help us all get away. We could’ve been killed by her.” Dale turned to Rick. “What’s she talking about?” he asked him. Rick shook his head. “They’re just mad I made it out before they did.” I couldn’t believe this guy. “No, we’re mad because we saved your ass from being a lifetime concubine to a horny ape woman, then left us there to deal with her once you had your chance to bolt.”
Rick scoffed. “Whatever,” he said. “You weren’t the ones that spent days trapped in a cave by a damned monster. What did you expect me to do?”
“That’s enough,” Dale said before I or Kara could say anything in response. “Rick, get your shit together and leave my property. These good folks put their lives on the line to help me, not to mention save your ass, and you didn’t even have the decency to stick by them when they needed you. I want you gone now.” Rick threw his hands up. “Fine, I didn’t need this job anyway,” he said.
We watched as he walked to his truck and sped off, slinging gravel. After a minute, we went with Dale back to his office and told him the whole story. “I just can’t believe it,” he said. “My daddy always said they were real, but we all just thought he was about halfway crazy. Question is, what am I going to do about her?” I looked at Kara, who shrugged. She wouldn’t be any help with this, so I stepped out on a limb.
“I don’t think she wants to hurt anyone,” I said. “She’s just lonely. Maybe you should make friends with her.” They both looked at me like I was crazy, but I pushed on. “For whatever reason, she’s alone in this area, and being alone sucks for anyone, man or sasquatch. I think she started taking things out of hunger at first, then out of curiosity. As far as Rick goes, he’s a big hairy guy, she just mistook him for one of her own kind. So take her a gift once in a while and make friends with her. Eventually, maybe she can become a valuable asset to your campground.” Dale thought it over for a moment. “Well I guess it’s worth a shot,” he said. “Anything is better than having to close this place down.”
With things settled, Kara and I left the office to go back to our campsite. We spent the rest of the evening enjoying the great outdoors, and that night we did a fair amount of star gazing. Other than our brush with the lady-squatch, I could see what Kara loved so much about camping. There’s a lot of beauty out there.
On the ride home the next morning, we played more car games, sang, and laughed about our time with the hairy woman of Crazy Acres Camping. Kara said she was looking forward to the next camping trip, and that with my talent, there was no telling what we would find next time. I laughed and told her I planned to stick to finding the easy stuff from here on out, but as I have said in the past, I think my days of finding the easy things, are over.
My name is Jack, and I find things. Key’s, jewelry, the occasional ghost, even a sasquatch, I find it all, but this time I found out I kinda like camping. Yeah I know, who would have thought.X
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2020.09.08 13:50 sugardaddyseeking Why Sugar Daddy Dating is More Fun

Why Sugar Daddy Dating is More Fun
Over the past few years, online dating has become one of the most searched categories on the Internet. We now see many more niche dating sites, which present the opportunity to choose more accurately the type of relationship that appeals to us most, and sugar daddy dating is off to a flyer. Yet not without good reason.
It's true to say that many younger women prefer the attention of the more mature type of male partner and equally a large percentage of males will openly admit to being attracted to younger women, so it's not really surprising that sugar daddy dating has become so popular. But what does each gain from such a relationship? Is sugar daddy dating all about sex for favors? Or should we be looking beyond its victorian roots for an answer much less sinister?

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There is little doubt that there are those females who see sugar daddy dating as an ideal way to make their future more secure. These females will typically be seeking a long term arrangement rather than a relationship, with no strings attached sex offered as the bait. On the other hand, there are also males who view sugar daddy dating as a way to find a younger woman, who they can keep apart from their normal lifestyle, offering no exclusivity and are prepared to pay the price. However, the majority of those excited by the prospects offered by the sugar daddy dating websites, males and females alike, are genuinely interested in a long term relationship with an older or younger partner.
So what is it about sugar daddy dating that people of both sexes find exciting? Well, it's not rocket science! But first of all, you need to appreciate that in today's social climate, the regular, everyday relationship between male and female tends to be shallow and almost throwaway like the material things in our society. Perhaps this is the reason why only one in three marriages last longer than ten years.
It is also given that at any age, the female of the species is at least ten years ahead of the male in terms of maturity. So naturally, she would be more suited to sugar daddy dating, with a male at least ten years her senior. A high percentage of women report that they find males of their own age boring and lacking in respect. The sexual side of the relationship soon becomes stale without the romance she craves, and before long it is quite apparent they have nothing in common.
Let's look at the obvious benefits that sugar daddy dating sites have to offer to both male and female members. The typical male membership would consist predominately of wealthy and successful men who enjoy the company of a younger woman and have the need to love and protect their partner. The male who joins a sugar daddy dating site is typically compassionate, caring, romantic yet dynamic. He will care about his appearance and condition and enjoy a good quality of life albeit sleeping alone rather than settling for a partner that fails to float his boat. The female membership at a sugar daddy dating site may not, contrary to opinion, need a financial benefactor to save her from the bailiffs. (There is no future in such a relationship.) She will more typically be an independent yet feminine woman, who spends time on her appearance and body, and her attraction to sugar daddy dating goes far beyond improving her quality of life. She will often be attracted to a more mature successful male capable of making decisions for her, treating her like a princess, and showing respect for her very being.
The sexual aspect of a relationship is for many the most important part of all. Physical attraction is high on most member's agendas, and in that respect, sugar daddy dating is no different. It's not uncommon for the female to find success rather than wealth (although they often go hand in hand) an attractive quality too. Sex is often slow and deliberate with flirting and teasing an important part of the foreplay. Quickies are a rarity and the foreplay will often begin in the restaurant or earlier in the evening.
Sugar daddy dating is just one of the many niche online dating sites that have sprung up all over the Internet. Many site members have become disillusioned with the regular online dating sites and the lack of search facilities in finding a partner who's interests, appearance and mindset are close to those sought. The niche dating sites immediately shorten the search for a suitable partner and it's no surprise that they are growing in popularity.
So can sugar daddy dating be fun? Well, the growing trend towards the older guy / younger woman relationship would suggest that. Once a woman had dated a more mature male she will rarely go back to same age dating. There is no doubt that sugar daddy dating can be a great deal of fun for those individuals looking for more than a run of the mill relationship.
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2020.09.06 23:12 lordassriel Almost got sextorted on Grindr! Horror story incoming

Last night I met up with this really hot 22 year old guy. He had the biggest sob story about how his parents kicked him out of the house for being gay. After talking for over an hour, I started getting the sense that something wasn't right about this whole situation. He had said things here and there about sugar daddies, staying at other guy's places and seemed to have a lot of cool tech for someone who had no job.
We went to his bedroom and he left me there for a good five minutes while he was in the bathroom doing god knows what. He asked if we could look at each other's IDs. He wanted to confirm my age with me, which he thought was 27 when my profile clearly says 28. He kept insisting that I said I was 27 but once again, it's on my profile and I asked why it was such a big deal anyway between 27 and 28, who cares? He made it seem like I had been dishonest with him and now he wants to confirm by seeing my ID because this is something someone taught him to do. He showed me his driver's licence and then asked to see mine. I showed him just my date of birth and then he commented on me covering up my name. He said he'd be right back and went to the bathroom again. At this point, I got my stuff and headed for the door.
He saw me leaving and I told him I don't feel safe and I know what he's trying to do. He's trying to use me, give me what I want (him) and then he in turn will start trying to get stuff out of me (loans, bikes, furniture, someone to drive him around, a place to stay!). He denied it and insisted we sit down and talk for a bit. I said fine.
As he spoke, I learned that he was "forced" into this lifestyle after being kicked out by his mother. He had nothing and no one so he somehow met these other gay "friends" around his age who do this exact same thing. He started going on Grindr specifically to find guys who he could get something out of and it sounded like he specifically wanted to go for discreet guys so he could use it as leverage against them. Even though I told him many times that I'm 100% out and even have my face pictures up, he kept insisting that I said I was closeted. I then kept insisting that I'm not and never said that. He then says "Okay, but you're not fully out of the closet." I said, "I am 100% out of the closet! And no one cares."
I think the only reason he targeted me was for my car (Fuck, this is the second guy this month who wanted me for my car). I'm unemployed and living with family. How could I possibly help this guy out in any way, which I said. And then yep, he says "Well, you have a car." I told him I am not driving him anywhere.
As the conversation continued, I realized just how desperate and lonely he is. He started letting his guard down and was being open and honest. He has no real friends. This is his only way of making any kind of connection with anyone, especially during Covid. I kept telling him he needs to stop doing this, it's wrong and someone will react worse than I did and he will get himself in trouble. He then kept saying "What am I doing?" He went back to playing dumb like we didn't just spend an hour talking about this.
During the first half of the evening, he had mentioned to me that he needs a new phone and a new laptop. Because both of them are glitching. He has an iPhone XR and what looked like to be one of the newer Macbook pros. I then brought this up again with him and asked if he expected me to buy these for him after he "won me over." He got so defensive and angry at me for suggesting this. But it was clear as day!
Another thing to note is that his basement apartment has no reception so another one of his ways of getting to these guy's houses is by telling them that he just needs a place with reception and with internet so he can study. He's not even enrolled in school right now. At some points he would even say "Okay, I'll stop and I'll work on myself, go back to school and if that doesn't work, I'll start working again." Great, do it! But then he would walk back these statements and get upset with me for suggesting that he should stop doing this.
He has a $2000 E-bike. Who has an E-bike??? I asked him how he afforded it and he just blurted out "Because I'm smart!!!" He then admitted that he got it from a guy he "fucked with" and that he deserved it. When things start to fall out, ie, he stops having sex with these guys and they still want to or vice versa, he resorts to full on extortion. He gets what he can out of them before they're out of his life. I even witnessed him call someone and leave a message. Someone he claims said would help him and apparently hasn't contacted him since March. I even know the guy's name. He then went and blocked him. Also, he is a major major pothead because it's all he does with his time when he's not extorting guys. We smoked together earlier in the evening and he commented on how I barely did it or obviously don't do it as much as I said I did. He clearly wanted me to be completely fucked out of my brain. I don't take long drags regardless, but I'm so happy I barely touched the stuff. Anyway, I'm not sure if me being high made me mind clearer or how I would've handled all this if I were sober.
He openly admitted that all he wants is for his parents to love and accept him. The pain behind his voice when he said this was actually heartbreaking. I feel for this guy. He wants to find a real boyfriend who he can bring home to them. He just wants to find the one and for his mom to be okay with it. I told him that I get that his mother completely fucked up his life and that he's doing what he can to survive...but this isn't the way. It's just gonna blow up in his face. He already has a reputation and earlier even kept asking me if I asked around about him before coming over. Guys are clearly warning each other about him. I asked at one point how many guy's places he had stayed at and he told me he couldn't even count if he tried. He said it used to be a different guy almost every night. But now that he has his own place, it was less. He still clearly does it so he can have a place with reception/internet.
It was getting really late and he still tried to get me to hook up with him by suggesting it ever to subtly. I laughed and said is that something YOU even want to do about all of this. He says, not really, no. But here we were again, he was just doing it so I got to sleep with this sexy dude and then he would hold it over my head and proceed to use me even though I am hyper aware of what he's doing! Why would I let him? Yes, I displayed clear empathy and care for him as we spoke, but I am not going to be that person for him and I told him.
He hugged me goodbye and I wished him all the best in life and while I sat in my car, I got a nasty text from him that said "Keep in mind you also said you were scared. Don't come back." I said I was at first but now I see him and get him completely and realized he wasn't going to hurt me. He then tells me he really didn't like my advice and I'm wrong about everything. "There is nothing wrong with me or anything I could've done different." I just said, okay I thought we had a moment there where we understood each other but clearly I was wrong. He then said "I understand you but you can't say I am in the wrong about anything, right?" I said "I don't think you're in the wrong" (I mean I do, but I was trying to deescalate this. I repeated my comment about his mother fucking up his life and him doing what he can to survive and then he calls me!!! I couldn't believe the gall of this guy. He calls and most of the things he said were inaudible due his his bad connection but he then asked what I was doing the next day because he needs to go see this place. I said I was busy and couldn't. He then tried to make me feel bad for him. He then started talking about the first guy he was with ever and how it broke him and he just wants that again, wants him again. He just wants to talk to him. We said our goodbyes and now I'm worried about what's going to happen next...
Other notable interactions:-He has gotten the police involved when there are altercations with guys and when things get too much with his mother.
- These gay friends of his, he has hooked up with them and also, they don't treat him well and aren't nice to him. I asked him this specifically. He mentioned that he's not some kind of outcast. But he made me think all along that he was an outcast. Now he has a group of gay friends he chills with? But who don't actually give a shit about him?
- I sent a message to the guy he called that night but I unsent it because I'm not sure if I want to be involved in this any further. A gay friend of mine is investigating a little by checking with his other Grindr pals.
- He seems to be constantly changing his bio on Grindr. When I left, it said: "18-26. Faceless gets blocked. I really don't wanna see spam acc's..like...what are you doing with your life? Rental property offerings are most welcome from whoever, no sugar daddies though. Give yourself all the reception of the world still." AND THEN when I got home and checked it said: "18-26. Faceless gets blocked. Not a sex worker, I was just banned for taking a loan (OH I completely forgot to mention this. He takes loans and says he will pay them back. I then said, "Do you actually pay them back?" He got defensive and I said "I believe you'll pay them back but WHEN? In five years?") Hmu if you experience the same problems or labelings. Sex for money shouldn't be any of my business. Just looking for someone smart that gets tested regularly."
There is so much more to this story that I've probably forgotten to mention but I can leave that for the comments if anyone is interested.
tl;dr Guy tried to sexually extort me on Grindr and I called him out, learned his reasoning and backstory and that he's not the only person who does this. There's a group of them.
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2020.09.06 23:11 lordassriel Almost got sextorted! Horror story incoming

Last night I met up with this really hot 22 year old guy. He had the biggest sob story about how his parents kicked him out of the house for being gay. After talking for over an hour, I started getting the sense that something wasn't right about this whole situation. He had said things here and there about sugar daddies, staying at other guy's places and seemed to have a lot of cool tech for someone who had no job.
We went to his bedroom and he left me there for a good five minutes while he was in the bathroom doing god knows what. He asked if we could look at each other's IDs. He wanted to confirm my age with me, which he thought was 27 when my profile clearly says 28. He kept insisting that I said I was 27 but once again, it's on my profile and I asked why it was such a big deal anyway between 27 and 28, who cares? He made it seem like I had been dishonest with him and now he wants to confirm by seeing my ID because this is something someone taught him to do. He showed me his driver's licence and then asked to see mine. I showed him just my date of birth and then he commented on me covering up my name. He said he'd be right back and went to the bathroom again. At this point, I got my stuff and headed for the door.
He saw me leaving and I told him I don't feel safe and I know what he's trying to do. He's trying to use me, give me what I want (him) and then he in turn will start trying to get stuff out of me (loans, bikes, furniture, someone to drive him around, a place to stay!). He denied it and insisted we sit down and talk for a bit. I said fine.
As he spoke, I learned that he was "forced" into this lifestyle after being kicked out by his mother. He had nothing and no one so he somehow met these other gay "friends" around his age who do this exact same thing. He started going on Grindr specifically to find guys who he could get something out of and it sounded like he specifically wanted to go for discreet guys so he could use it as leverage against them. Even though I told him many times that I'm 100% out and even have my face pictures up, he kept insisting that I said I was closeted. I then kept insisting that I'm not and never said that. He then says "Okay, but you're not fully out of the closet." I said, "I am 100% out of the closet! And no one cares."
I think the only reason he targeted me was for my car (Fuck, this is the second guy this month who wanted me for my car). I'm unemployed and living with family. How could I possibly help this guy out in any way, which I said. And then yep, he says "Well, you have a car." I told him I am not driving him anywhere.
As the conversation continued, I realized just how desperate and lonely he is. He started letting his guard down and was being open and honest. He has no real friends. This is his only way of making any kind of connection with anyone, especially during Covid. I kept telling him he needs to stop doing this, it's wrong and someone will react worse than I did and he will get himself in trouble. He then kept saying "What am I doing?" He went back to playing dumb like we didn't just spend an hour talking about this.
During the first half of the evening, he had mentioned to me that he needs a new phone and a new laptop. Because both of them are glitching. He has an iPhone XR and what looked like to be one of the newer Macbook pros. I then brought this up again with him and asked if he expected me to buy these for him after he "won me over." He got so defensive and angry at me for suggesting this. But it was clear as day!
Another thing to note is that his basement apartment has no reception so another one of his ways of getting to these guy's houses is by telling them that he just needs a place with reception and with internet so he can study. He's not even enrolled in school right now. At some points he would even say "Okay, I'll stop and I'll work on myself, go back to school and if that doesn't work, I'll start working again." Great, do it! But then he would walk back these statements and get upset with me for suggesting that he should stop doing this.
He has a $2000 E-bike. Who has an E-bike??? I asked him how he afforded it and he just blurted out "Because I'm smart!!!" He then admitted that he got it from a guy he "fucked with" and that he deserved it. When things start to fall out, ie, he stops having sex with these guys and they still want to or vice versa, he resorts to full on extortion. He gets what he can out of them before they're out of his life. I even witnessed him call someone and leave a message. Someone he claims said would help him and apparently hasn't contacted him since March. I even know the guy's name. He then went and blocked him. Also, he is a major major pothead because it's all he does with his time when he's not extorting guys. We smoked together earlier in the evening and he commented on how I barely did it or obviously don't do it as much as I said I did. He clearly wanted me to be completely fucked out of my brain. I don't take long drags regardless, but I'm so happy I barely touched the stuff. Anyway, I'm not sure if me being high made me mind clearer or how I would've handled all this if I were sober.
He openly admitted that all he wants is for his parents to love and accept him. The pain behind his voice when he said this was actually heartbreaking. I feel for this guy. He wants to find a real boyfriend who he can bring home to them. He just wants to find the one and for his mom to be okay with it. I told him that I get that his mother completely fucked up his life and that he's doing what he can to survive...but this isn't the way. It's just gonna blow up in his face. He already has a reputation and earlier even kept asking me if I asked around about him before coming over. Guys are clearly warning each other about him. I asked at one point how many guy's places he had stayed at and he told me he couldn't even count if he tried. He said it used to be a different guy almost every night. But now that he has his own place, it was less. He still clearly does it so he can have a place with reception/internet.
It was getting really late and he still tried to get me to hook up with him by suggesting it ever to subtly. I laughed and said is that something YOU even want to do about all of this. He says, not really, no. But here we were again, he was just doing it so I got to sleep with this sexy dude and then he would hold it over my head and proceed to use me even though I am hyper aware of what he's doing! Why would I let him? Yes, I displayed clear empathy and care for him as we spoke, but I am not going to be that person for him and I told him.
He hugged me goodbye and I wished him all the best in life and while I sat in my car, I got a nasty text from him that said "Keep in mind you also said you were scared. Don't come back." I said I was at first but now I see him and get him completely and realized he wasn't going to hurt me. He then tells me he really didn't like my advice and I'm wrong about everything. "There is nothing wrong with me or anything I could've done different." I just said, okay I thought we had a moment there where we understood each other but clearly I was wrong. He then said "I understand you but you can't say I am in the wrong about anything, right?" I said "I don't think you're in the wrong" (I mean I do, but I was trying to deescalate this. I repeated my comment about his mother fucking up his life and him doing what he can to survive and then he calls me!!! I couldn't believe the gall of this guy. He calls and most of the things he said were inaudible due his his bad connection but he then asked what I was doing the next day because he needs to go see this place. I said I was busy and couldn't. He then tried to make me feel bad for him. He then started talking about the first guy he was with ever and how it broke him and he just wants that again, wants him again. He just wants to talk to him. We said our goodbyes and now I'm worried about what's going to happen next...
Other notable interactions: -He has gotten the police involved when there are altercations with guys and when things get too much with his mother. - These gay friends of his, he has hooked up with them and also, they don't treat him well and aren't nice to him. I asked him this specifically. He mentioned that he's not some kind of outcast. But he made me think all along that he was an outcast. Now he has a group of gay friends he chills with? But who don't actually give a shit about him? - I sent a message to the guy he called that night but I unsent it because I'm not sure if I want to be involved in this any further. A gay friend of mine is investigating a little by checking with his other Grindr pals. - He seems to be constantly changing his bio on Grindr. When I left, it said: "18-26. Faceless gets blocked. I really don't wanna see spam acc's..like...what are you doing with your life? Rental property offerings are most welcome from whoever, no sugar daddies though. Give yourself all the reception of the world still." AND THEN when I got home and checked it said: "18-26. Faceless gets blocked. Not a sex worker, I was just banned for taking a loan (OH I completely forgot to mention this. He takes loans and says he will pay them back. I then said, "Do you actually pay them back?" He got defensive and I said "I believe you'll pay them back but WHEN? In five years?") Hmu if you experience the same problems or labelings. Sex for money shouldn't be any of my business. Just looking for someone smart that gets tested regularly."
There is so much more to this story that I've probably forgotten to mention but I can leave that for the comments if anyone is interested.
tl;dr Guy tried to sexually extort me on Grindr and I called him out, learned his reasoning and backstory and now I'm worried I'm too involved and don't know what to do next.
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2020.08.26 18:49 Compodulator So... I'm free. Now what?

I can't think of a better title for it. I also can't think of a better subreddit to put it into.
Here's the situation: I'm epileptic, I'm fighting for a temporal lobecotomy - a surgery that may successfully remove the offending chunk of brain and make me a free man. Great. No more seizures, no more depression, maybe some PTSD from all the years of seizures. I actually have a generic idea when this happens now - somewhere in October. It's holiday season right now and getting ANYTHING done is practically impossible. Everybody is on vacation. I've finished all my evaluations, according to the neurosurgeon. Now it's just waiting for the cut and some "mental assistance" because they think it'll make me feel like I'm worthless and unworthy of being called a human. I'd rather not add my thoughts on this particular matter.
Now I'm thirty years old. The "fun years" are gone. No dating, no clubbing, never went to any of those parks with rollercoasters, no movies, no nothing. All this time I've been sitting and waiting. And waging a bureaucratic war against several hospitals. While everybody else were having a life, gaining experience on this piece of shit called life, I was doing paperwork and submitting myself for evaluations, sleeping in magnets. Hell, a month ago I was a legit lab rat during one of those evaluations. I never had a girlfriend, never had sex, never been to a party, no friends. You know these 90's college movies where there's a virgin nerd, and for whatever reason, a bunch of jocks make it their mission to get the nerd laid before Christmas, or set him up with the semester's babe, or some other thing of the same kind? Well, I'm the nerd. Except it's not college, and I don't have any jock friends, so all I do every day is sit, wait, and do paperwork.
I'm bringing all of this shit up is because I want you understand that statistically, our worlds are very, unfathomably different. Depending on who you ask, one in twenty six or one in twenty nine people is epileptic. The other twenty five? They're out there, frolicking in the meadows. Now, as I said, in October there's a chance, however small, to break this cycle. Somewhere in October I get a tiny, microscopic chance to move to your world.
And so comes the big question: what am I going to do there? Dating after thirty is impossible. Imagine a thirty year old guy with a beard coming into a club. Everybody else is, what, eighteen to twenty five? "MOMMY! THERE'S A PEDO!!!" I'm too poor to be a sugar daddy. Getting any internet career is an absurd thought - nowadays all you see is teenagers on tiktok dancing, somersaulting, flailing their boobs and lipsynching. I mean, sure, I can flail mine too, but when a man does it, it's sexual harassment. It took me two years, but I managed to get a job - slave at some clothing warehouse. Any other job wants a young person with fifty years of experience. Nowadays, moving to a better paying job, which usually means IT is even harder because there are millenial bosses who also want thirty years of experience in Python 3. Besides, nobody wants to employ epileptics, and by law, I am to bring that up even if I'm stabilized. Becoming internet-famous is also impossible. Old people are difficult to market. FansOnly? I'm pretty sure my hairy ass would traumatize you for life. Becoming a proper, biological father is out of question. No way in hell I'm gambling on an innocent child's life and have them grow with this shit. That's worse than a war crime. I suppose I could adopt, but I don't know if I have the strength to bring myself to see that child as my son or daughter. I don't know how adoptive parents manage to do it, and in that regard, they are stronger people than I'll ever be.
So... marriage is out of question, fame is out of question, money is out of question. The big triangle ain't coming together. In the words of Matt Damon (I think), I'm pretty much fucked. That's my considered opinion. Fucked. Assuming the cut happens, let alone goes through well, where do I go?
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2020.08.21 10:57 throwawayConfusedV23 UPDATE 2 (SUMMARY): A problem with me (34M) and childhood-friend girlfriend's sugar past (30F)

TL;DR: That's a long and angry post - the more I learned about her sugar past, the more pissed I was at her choices, at the company (Seeking Arrangement) who gaslights those people ('platonic relationships with silver foxes', lol), and also the way I found out about it. I fought with my own instincts for over a month and I couldn't forget about her sex work (with two damn ugly married dudes). I do have many issues with suraging, but the main issue for me that she got comfortable with transactional sex and this is what disqualifies her from serious relationship in my eyes. It's pretty much re-branded prostitution - maybe some men will be OK with it, but I am definitely not the one of them regardless of any therapy I might ever do (more on that below). However, lucky for me, things took an unexpected u-turn and the problem solved itself. I met another girl from an unexpected source and we seem to be much more aligned in our values, i.e. achieving our goals via hard work. Thank you again all for your replies - those somewhat helped me to analyse it and reach a decision. I hope it's the last update.
The original post here: https://www.reddit.com/relationship_advice/comments/hypnl6/a_problem_with_me_34m_and_childhoodfriend/
The second post here: https://www.reddit.com/relationship_advice/comments/i1ql4z/update_a_problem_with_me_34m_and_childhoodfriend/
Here goes the story:
We kept 'dating' with the ex but not sleeping together anymore as I didn't want sex to cloud my thinking. I was confused that she was with around 20+ other men (pretty standard for a girl in London) and I didn't have hang ups on that (my body count is more than double that). However, those two sugar daddies were disgusting to me. I still want to vomit just on thought of her having sex with those two unfurred fat monkeys with beer guts - yikes! In my books her sex became transactional, i.e. she got comfortable with fucking because of money, not because she wanted those guys. I could call that a mistake if it was one-off and she pulled out from sugaring quickly. But she kept doing that for more than a year. I know we are in the 21st century and every damn celebrity is in an open relationship (howdy, Will Smith!), but it just doesn't fit my model of a marriageable woman (yh, stone me in comments, lol). Maybe she changed, but I am not taking that risk (the divorce law in the UK is horrible for a man with assets).
I said to her that my main reason for coming back to the UK was to start a family. Since then our dates became completely filled with drama and she insisted on meeting like every day and weekends. I heard a lot of things: that 'if we break up, I would regret it because she's a very loyal girlfriend', 'I should go with her because other girls wouldn't see me attractive' (well, I am not too pretty, but very fit and I have sky-high confidence), ‘I am love of her life’, ‘that we meant to be together’, ‘than I am the best boyfriend even’, 'that was the best sex she had' (I did some kinks early when we started sleeping, e.g. silky tie and some bondage), 'other girls would only want my money' (after she found out about my investemens), ‘you are the only one who I told so much about me’ (bs, I digged the most of info myself), and 'if you truly love me then you will understand' (wtf is here to understand?).I also learned that she had boyfriends during those 'relationships' and that's triggered me even more (they were unaware). Maybe she is not the same person anymore, but this is very heavy stuff for me. Then she said it was 'just business'. I read some of /sugarlifestyleforum and I concluded those people are delusional and their beliefs to be just self-justifying bs. I also asked why I should date her now instead of being a sugar daddy myself - I have more than enough income to do that and have much better physique than most of them. I didn't get an answer.
This is where the story twist starts.
One of the people I met abroad was an african woman working as a PM. We worked together for a few years (she was our Scrum Master) and we had quite an understanding with each other. Once I found out about the sugaring, I called her for an opinion. She was really surprised and said she needed to seriously think about it and would come back to me. A week later she asked me if I ever dated a black girl, because her niece studied in London ('nieces' in an african culture have a very wide meaning, i.e. it could be someone from her town).
She insisted it might help me to get a new perspective and it's not dating really (yh - I double dated, you can stone me in comments, lol). It was just to meet her niece in a relaxed environment. Anyhow, I had enough of those intense ‘dates’ and needed some rest. I dated interracially (mostly asian and one arabic), but never dated a black girl before so I was quite confused if I could do it. Also, her niece is 26-yrs old and that's a substantial age difference (I am 34). Also, I am sorry if it sounds racist, but it is a taboo in the UK (especially in small cities) and I didn't know what to expect.
I met her niece in a coffee shop. She must have received my photo because she recognised me right away. I didn't know what to expect - I entered the shop and looked at the tables and suddenly there was a tall black girl just in front of me. By 'tall' I meant like a head taller (she wore wore high-heels - an auntie must missed that I am 5'11 - we must looked funny, lol). She was dressed moderately, but I can see those awesome shapes below the dress.
Well, I am a confident man and a confident man takes action. I won't allow myself to be intimidated by anything bigger than me (please don't laugh!). I asked her what she wanted, we grabbed coffee and got a table in the corner. I don't remember exactly what we talked about, but it was quite mild: my experiences abroad, her studies (legal with focus on project financing - not my domain exactly, but I have some knowledge), how I met her auntie, etc. Her auntie must have sold me pretty well, because she was already impressed for the get go. All this time I was thinking if I could be attracted to a black girl or not.
A few next dates were fun (it was nice to be back in the UK!). Finally we both got tipsy in a pub and she asked me if I am attracted to her. I did respond to what I thought - it's my first black girl date and I have no clue. She starts laughing and says she also cannot stop thinking if she's attracted to a white man or not. I said there was only one way to check and offered to call Uber to my place. There was a hot and intense pause, and I saw some hesitation, but then she refused. I didn’t take it badly and we laughed. You should see where it was going. I was meeting two girls at the same time (if that's an acceptable excuse, I was not sleeping anymore with the ex). We met more times with the black girl and there was sexual tension now. I could notice she was dressing more aggressively and we touched more. We needed an excuse to meet in private and I suggested we meet at the weekend and cook together (any bs excuse would do at this stage). So she came (with yam and some spices), but there was not much cooking done. We had a blast and I just couldn't get enough of that black body. Yes - I am definitely attracted to a black girls and she likes this white boy too.
There were funny moments: (i) after the first time, she asked me if dating a black girl was some kink I fulfilled and if I want to see her again (I was speechless, lol); (ii) in the pub she asks me if it’s OK to be taller that me - I dreaded, but the response came by itself ‘when we do doggy, then u are lower than me’; (iii) the second time we had sex I asked if black guys have bigger dicks (I did fell insecure a bit!); she stood up and brought measure tape (I keep some tools around for DIY) and measured me. She did it in such a funny way, making funny faces, shaking her head, measuring to the millimetre, etc. I could not stop laughing and she told me: 'Nope, all are 8-inchers', (iv) since the third time we haven't used condoms and I said it was finally white on black.
Meanwhile, I really got cold on my ex. I felt a bit of guilt, because I didn't formally break with her. Before I was trying to figure out what I think and how to fit that into my world's model, but I simply didn't care anymore if she was sugaring or not. Before I tried to push myself emotionally to be there with her, but now I just didn't give a fuck. I respect her as my friend and I hold no judgements, but there is no connection anymore. With my black girlfriend it just goes naturally and smoothly - we disagree and we argue, but there is no major discord in life's values. We both are hard working and career driven people. There was no fucking way I could be in a relationship with someone with the past like her and I made sure that I got my point accross (stone me for that in comments, lol).
In the previous posts there was a suggestion to try a therapy and I indeed tried a few sessions. On the first attempt, from what I understood from the therapist, my ex's sugaring past was rejected by the non-compromising nature of mine. This non-compromising nature makes me an achiever and this drive is what allowed me to thrive in a foreign land for a decade. I subconsciously see her as substandard goods (yes, that’s very true!) due to her having transactional sex. Therefore, to accept her I would need to change this core nature of mine, and very likely this is the trait which keeps the ex attracted to me. It's safe to say that the ex is attracted to achievers (both sugar daddies were in management in the corporate world). I hope I can explain the mechanics of that - my very core nature is what attracts her in the first place and it's also what rejects her. There is no way I would change this core trait of mine. On my second therapy visit we tried another route - the trick was to convince myself that the person you are dating is not the same person as she was before. It went even worse than the first one - my mind is very grounded in reality (I have engineering education) and I am very stubborn. No matter what we tried I couldn’t separate her into two persons. Maybe it works better with more feeble minded men. Anyhow, after those sessions I concluded that any further therapy would be a waste of time.
As for ex - well, she's a high profile model and I am sure she will find someone, it just won't be me. I learned a lot about myself and I don't think that the sex work is something I could move on ever. I know other men are OK with it, but I am not the one of them. The last time we spoke was a few days ago and her last words were 'I wish I didn't have those sugar relationships, if I knew it was so important for you'. I wish that too, but she still had them. I suggested her to try those metro-sexual or polyamory men as they seem to have less issues with women's sex past (at least that's my impression from reading Reddit). There is also a problem that our families know each other pretty well and the fact that we dated (they were cheering for us) and it would have an impact on their relationships. I am already breaking many taboos here in our little England by dating a black girl and my parents will need to clearly know why I am not with my childhood sweetheart. Those questions will be asked and I am unsure how to answer it.
Before I conclude this post, I put together a list of notes from the last few weeks. My biggest regret is to even consider being with the ex and trying to push myself into that relationship. The more I pushed myself into that relationship, the more angry I became and those points clearly show that:
  1. I really wanted to work it out with my ex, but I was repulsed by her sugaring. I tried therapy and I tried not to judge, but she just lost value in my eyes. It just happened. In my books, sex is something people do because they are attracted to each other (physically). I don't hold the casual sex past over the ex - there is attraction even in drunken ONS, but being fucked (also video-recorded) just for some gifts and cash? This is where her sex life became transactional and this is where she lost me.
  2. I learned a thing or two about myself. I am a guy witn high sex drive, and I put a lots of value on sex life. With ex, I couldn't resist thoughts that she priced her sex very very very low. It's like £2,500 average per month vs. a life-long commitment to a loving husband. That was a very bad transaction in my books and she lost my respect here.
  3. What was actually drilling me the most was her sex video. Call me insecure, but how could I stay with her knowing that it could be uploaded to the Internet at any time? Firstly, I don't want boys to jerk off to my wife's sex video, and, secondly, I have my reputation to protect (if it ever goes out in my circles I would be a laughing stock). The ex said her first sugar daddy was 'a gentleman' and never would do such a thing. However, I just cannot reconcile that 'gentleman' with a man cheating on his wife and then ghosting his sugar baby without further contact. Therefore, even if I could somehow get over her sex work, the sex video would always hang over my head.
  4. I realised that I don't want to 'reward' my ex for her sleazy and easy life. When she was in her peak she had it all - the security of relationship from boyfriends and the money from sugar daddies. Meanwhile, I worked my ass out. l shared an apartment with a few other people just to save money. I ate in SubWay and Burger King to save money. I read those crazy financial math books a few times just so the language sticks in my head and I could pass interviews. Meanwhile, she was living in an apartment paid for her getting old married dicks in the ass (sorry if it sounds judging and disrespectful). Now her looks fade and she wants a commitment. Call me silly, but I just saw it unfair that she would get a soft landing after wasting her prime time on sugaring. I will not share my earnings nor spend my prime time with her.
  5. I did read some of the posts on /sugarlifestyleforum. I find those people delusional and their beliefs to be just self-justifying bs fueled by some brainwashing from a PR company. There is nothing glorious about those ‘relationships’ - it’s a sleazy guy using his money to pay for sex. A typical mindset is ‘I am smarter than everyone else because I don’t have student loans’ and ‘I want luxury things without earning them’. My ex had the same mindset and I know now where it came from (she also mentioned it was just a 'business'). Imho, I dodged not just one bullet, but the whole MOAB bomb with her.
  6. The ex had boyfriends while sugaring. Only one of them knew about it and he didn't like it, yet he stayed with her for a few months before they broke. I see it like this - she was in her prime time and had much more power in dating. She forced this poor dude to accept her sleeping around and I am not fine with it. Now, roles are reversed - I am the hotter one and she's pushing her 30-ies. She hasn't shown understanding to this poor dude - neither will I. When I explained this reasoning to the ex (actually it was quite loud), she replied that 'I need to be a bigger person'. The thing is that I don't want to be a bigger person. I am pretty confident in my skin and I don't need to force myself to grow because she did like she did. Karma is a bitch.
  7. I tried to spin her sugaring in any positive gain I could think of, i.e. how did her sugaring improve her spiritually or materialy? I just could not find much: she paid for two semesters of fashion university (£14000?), her Gucci bag is like £1500, her website costs maybe £500 to do and her clothes and lingerie maybe £2000 more. Let's make it total £20,000 - it's not that much overall. One plus is that she became a bit kinky, but to be honest I could expand her horizons more in two-three months (I picked up some tricks and I have a few silk ties :P). The negatives are listed above.
The other points are my thoughts about my black girlfriend:
  1. Fuck the taboos (literally, lol!). We, little Englanders need to pull our heads from our asses and consider people like they are, regardless of a race. I needed a shock to my system to date a black girl. My dick says 'yes'. There will be racism and hate towards you as a mixed couple. Black men will give you bad looks, white women will look at you in disgust. Even in a place like London, it’s noticeable. Well, fuck them.
  2. I know that my black girlfriend stole me (her auntie organised it in a Agile-way, I wonder if they had daily standups, lol). I am fine with that. I need to highlight it - I was a willing participant in the whole thing. I found out that black girls are confident and it's not the fake bravado of the Western women. They study hard and work hard to achieve in life. They can fight for relationships. My girlfriend stayed in contact with her auntie all the time. I see many similarities between myself and my girlfriend.
  3. If you think you can be attracted to black girls - go for it. You will be pleasantly surprised. The black girls are hiding awesome bodies in that baggy clothes. I started noticing them around and it was like an awakening for me. Google for 'Liya Kebede' and paint her darker - that's my girl. Also, NEVER touch the hair of a black girlfriend. I freaked out for the first time she put away her wig. If our relationship goes sour, I will try to find another black girl - they really want to marry and have kids, not just settle down because they cannot find the next ATM. I am sorry, if it sounds bitter.
  4. The girlfriend is a bit taller than me (my 5’11 vs. her 6’2) and not all sex positions work well. We are still working on it :P
Here you go - I learned a lot in those few weeks and was finally able to find my balls back. I have a loving relationship now and a peace in my mind. Plus there is something exciting in breaking social norms, dating interracially and selecting exotic girls over the native girls (we in the UK are still petty in our heads). I convinced my girlfriend to apply for a training contract in the legal department in a company where I work (she will get it, lol).
After lots of thinking and trying to be positive and non-judging, I came to the conclusion that any sex work in the present or in the past should be auto-dump for any serious relationship. Don't compromise on emotions and don’t let yourself be lied to that it’s your insecurity / immaturity, the past doesn't matter, she changed, la-la-la... There are many beautiful women who don't have sheaky past. There is no point trying to 'understand' and 'move on'. Think of it - she's hot now, but she won't be pretty in a decade - will you stay with her? Also, there is no point in expensive therapy or changing yourself, when you can just date someone else.
If we stick together for one year, I will put a ring on that chocolate cutie. My family will be pissed. Nevertheless, the little Englander in me is getting rooted out at light-speed, lol.
Sorry for a really long post. TL;RD is at the top.
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2020.08.17 12:24 Army_Bot Summary For: Weekly Question Thread (8/10/2020 to 8/16/2020)

Theoretically, if I never get married during my entire time while in the army will I always be in the barracks with a roommate or is there a rank you get to, where you can live by yourself? ( Location notwithstanding)
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Was told by my recruiter while him making it clear that he officially didn’t tell me that going to a congressmen would be the best bet for getting a waiver denied relooked at. In 8th grade I made a mistake and pulled the fire alarm and because of that got an F3 attempting to induce panic on my record. I’m grown man now been years since then never even had a ticket or tried drugs since.
It went through 8 people and every service member who looked at it gave approval but the civilian staff who looked at it denied it and the 2 star at the end according to my recruiter denied it to save face. How true that is idk but just what he said.
Is it worth contacting my congressmen or should I just give up?
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What's the process for getting into functional area 46A (public affairs officer) as an officer? Is there a minimum time in service or rank you have to make before you can switch over? Is this like packet MOSes where you can drop apply whenever as long as you meet the requirements, or do you have to wait for an opening/command approval/reaching the end of your contract? How competitive is it to get into this branch, and if it is competitive, how much weight is given to prior public affairs experience/education in the civilian world?
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Hello all I’m Shipping to basic tomorrow from Florida ,what are the chances we take a plane ?
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Joining Reserves and looking to sign for jobs that have SLRP. Theoretically, if it exists, will I be able to secure a job that has both a bonus and SLRP? Forgot to ask my recruiter while I was in today.
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Hey all,
I agreed to help a friend of a friend study for their ASVAB. They currently have a 20 on their only attempt. Anyone here have success stories of increasing from 20 to 40+?
At scoring a 20, I feel like the focus is more on retraining some basic multiplication and division than it is memorizing and using pythagorean theorem etc. but I would like some more info on what that score range requires.
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I'm in the process of trying to join the guard. I am currently a reservist that had a 6 year obligation on an 8 year contract. My 6th year was last week on the 7th. I was told I would receive orders in my email to the IRR which I am assuming are supposed to be discharge papers as well? How long does this usually take to receive? My understanding is that my transfer to the IRR is automatic without having to do anything. This is currently the only thing holding me up from going to MEPS for the guard and would like to get everything done ASAP.
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Prior service Marine here so when I go to MEPS I’ll be at the mercy of “needs of the army” I plan on going for 11x, but once there what are my chances and getting airborne guaranteed on my contract? If not are there opportunities along the infantry pipeline to where I can volunteer? I’ve heard from the recruiter and people here that after AIT I can volunteer for Airborne and after airborne I’d have a chance to volunteer for the 75th. What exactly are the chances of this happening? I just don’t want to be the guy that says my recruiter told me “...” after AIT and someone just tells me he lied to me get fucked. Thank you.
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Hi, I need help and I don't know what to do. I just had my father pass from COVID today. Thing is, my mother was 100% dependent on my father and now after his sudden passing she has no one but me. I'm just a dumb and young PFC living in the B's. What do I even do? Is there a way to support her at all?
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So hello I'm 23F and was just diagnosed with mild autism I'm currently an adult Ed teacher at a college and unless I told somebody they most definitely wouldn't know I'm autistic. But does the army look at that stuff, I've wanted to join for a while now and I've been getting in shape but if they don't let me in I feel like I've wasted so much time. I want to be a 91b and I have some experience already but will they try to say I'm unfit? From the stuff I've seen some service members are saying that autistic soldiers struggle with rapid changes but I think I'm pretty good at it. Any thoughts?
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Was taking my afternoon walk today and a recruiter pulled over and asked if I wanted to join the army. This is like the third time this has happened to me. Do recruiters just drive around all day in residential areas looking for young people to see if they want to join?
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Whats it like working in a HQ HHB unit as a Fiste 13F? Not really sure what to expect seeing im not directly attached to a maneuveline unit. Thanks!
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Is it true that on October 1st(the new fiscal year) more jobs will be available? I want to enlist as a 68K but my recruiter tells me there are no more slots for this fiscal year, if I wait till after October 1st what’s the chances that this mos will be available?
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How accurate is ACT when showing where your duty stations are?
Also, anyone have recommendations for a 670-1 acceptable backpack that can safely handle a laptop and all my other nerd shit like a Nintendo switch?
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I was wondering if anyone here has any information or suggestions about a 14 series warrant officer. I’m an new soldier in the army and was thinking about advancements in my field,14p.
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Hey y'all. So my fatass has lost 50lbs in 4-5 months (292-240) and my goal is to enlist. Would it be a good idea to talk to a recruiter soon, or wait until I'm at least at 200? When i was going to enlist NG a few years ago but passed up the offer, the recruiter actually worked with me and was a very awesome person, so it makes me wonder if someone will work with me again.
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Is the eagle run a graduation requirement?
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I have several questions, I’m 17. Senior in highschool. And I’m scheduled to take my ASVAB next week. I’m interested in getting into the Medical part of the army. So for this ASVAB, what should I take as a study course? I only have a week, anything could help. I’m not worried what’s after the ASVAB yet. Just now and now only. Another question is what was the ASVAB like for a casual high school student?
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Let’s say you’re a tall bastard, 6’7” or so... when practicing for the leg tuck, you’re feet will touch the ground, yeah? Will there be accommodations?
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Hey guys, sorry in advance for how long this is. So back in September I tried to get into the marines, I filled out all of my paperwork I was working out every other day with them, I did everything i was supposed to be doing. I had some unpaid tickets to clear up (speeding, parking, shit like that) so after that was all said and done I went to MEPS, I was pumped and ready to swear in then and there. Well come to turn out I couldn’t get a waiver for my specific charge. I was originally charged with distribution of marijuana when I was 15 on school grounds but I got a stay of adjudication which basically means after I completed all of my terms - probation, community service, rehabilitation class and paid a fine it was sealed on my record. Anyways we filled out all the paper work, my recruiter thought I was 100% going to be fine but it took 3 trips down to MEPS before I was actually told I couldn’t get this waiver. So then I tried for the Army (which I was told is more lenient on drug charges) so same thing, filled out all of my paperwork and was working out (this time mainly on my own at the gym just because of work hours), keeping in contact with my recruiter obviously so on and so forth. About 3 months pass with only me contacting me recruiter and she “still hadn’t heard anything” which I was expecting she said it could take up to 6 months. She stopped responding to me and then out of the blue texts me and asked if I could talk - I was extremely busy at work so I asked her if she could text me to which she never responded. I’m assuming it was denied because I never got a response or heard back from her after that. I’m currently in the process of having my complete record expunged which consists of; the original charge listed, another marijuana possession charge and paraphernalia charge, a theft charge and a marijuana in a motor vehicle. Neither of the two branches were worried about the other charges, just the main one that was adjudicated. I’m curious on if I would have a shot or if it would be worth it to re try once my charges are expunged to get in, even if it’s with a different recruiting station? I’ve always wanted to serve and didn’t realize when I was a young fuck wad that my decisions would effect me when I was older. My ASVAB score was an 87 and they told my I could pretty much go for anything that I wanted but a security clearance would likely hold me up. Would this still be the case as well if I got everything expunged? Thanks again for reading my long ass post. All input is appreciated.
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So weird question: Prior-Service USAF enlisted. Failed out of DLI years ago because I was a stupid kid. Looking at going Army 18x. Question is will my previous failure at DLI prevent me from having a chance to go SF due to them being required to attend the school, or will I have a second chance at passing? Recruiter doesn’t know the answer) and I can’t find anything about it online. Thank you for any assistance.
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Is my understanding of the prior service business rules correct? From my understanding if your MOS is not on the list you choose a job that is listed?
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Can't find a straight answer. Does anyone know what is the current regulation on combat patches for CENTCOM? Which countries are excluded?
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Career Advice: I am interested in enlisting as a 68W and pursuing both the W1 and F2 ASIs. What does this process look like on the practical level? What should I know beforehand?
Howdy, y'all,
I am a 21-year-old pre-nursing student who is seriously considering an enlistment in order to gain practical emergency medical skills and fund the remainder of my college education. For the last couple months I have been investigating hospital corpsman contract options with the Navy. I have met with a Navy recruiter once (an experience Im not eager to relive with the Army, which is why I'm gathering as much information as I can before I step foot in a recruiter's office again) and have spoken with several current and former Navy corpsmen.
For the last 12 months I have worked as a patient care technician in a civilian hemodialysis clinic and a mid-sized regional hospital. These experiences have taught me two things: 1. I love being present in peoples' darkest hours and alleviating their physical suffering, and I am good at it & 2. I want to continue to further my medical education and training, but I would rather gouge out my own eyes than spend another year within the walls of a hospital or clinic. My mid-term goal is to be a flight nurse; my long-term career goal is to treat traumatic injuries in humanitarian settings in the Middle East and Central Asia. I am ready to take the next step toward these goals, and I believe that the best way to do this is to receive the training necessary to treat injuries in the field AND take advantage of the awesome GI benefits my state has in order to secure my education.
I have recently accepted a yearlong contract for a new job which will provide me with ample time to research and train in the meantime. I am a small female who is athletic but understands that I'm a far cry from where I need to be in order to be truly competitive for these ASIs or the Navy ratings I would be interested in. I have a whole year to prepare, but I'm already working on developing physical and mental discipline- I'd love to hear from any females who have been down this road already and might have some advice for me.
The corpsmen I have spoken to have indicated that they have been very satisfied with their careers (especially those who were able to go to the Fleet Marine Force), but that if I am serious about helicopters, I need to pursue the Army rather than the Navy. I'm keeping my options open, but I'm focusing my research on the Army right now.
All of that said, here are my questions/talking points:
  1. What advice do 68Ws who have pursued these ASIs have for someone who's still one year out from signing a contract?
  2. I understand that becoming certified as an F2 requires at least one year of experience as a 68W. Does the same rule apply to W1, or could I submit a packet for a unit (160th, for example- I'm aiming high here) that could provide me with that training soon after AIT? I have spoken to a few non-68W personnel who believe this to be the case, but they advised me to check.
  3. I also understand that I can do literally everything right and STILL end up somewhere I don't want to be, doing something I don't want to do, because that's the nature of the beast. What can I do to protect myself and cover my bases in order to mitigate this risk? What should I be aware/conscious of as I'm meeting with recruiters and negotiating my contract?
  4. What are my potential blind spots? What do I have completely backwards? I invite anyone with more relevant experience than I have (so, most, if not all of y'all) to pick apart my plan and help me find its flaws.
Thanks in advance for reading my long-ass post :) I think that what y'all do is awesome and I can't wait to hear from you- but of course feel free to change my mind.
-B.
(moved from main army subreddit)
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Going to Benning for bct. Are they still doing the apft or have they switched to the acft for the “final fitness test”? Same question for RASP and PT test in the regiment.
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Does anyone know if they are currently accepting Time in Service Waivers for interservice transfer when applying for WO?
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Going to 255A WOBC and curious what to expect. Living situations and work/school "lifestyle". I'm a reservist and splitting my time there in 3 phases as not to completely destroy my civilian life.
Any info would be handy thanks, especially Do's & Dont's and things you wish you would've known before attending.
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Hey all, I'm a prior service 11b from the NG and I'm trying to get into active duty. I get to choose a duty station and I'm thinking either Fort Benning or Fort Campbell. I eventually want to go to RASP, so with that in mind would it be ideal to pick Benning, or does it even matter. Thanks.
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Prior-service 74D (e-4) wanting to re-enlist after Honorable Discharge in 2014. I want to reenlist under a different MOS but many recruiters tell me I have to follow the Prior Service business rules. The prior service rules have a passage that says the following:
7d. Applicants in the grade of E-4 and below with 48 months or less active duty are NOT restricted to the HRC business rules, therefore authorized to enlist Option 3 (Training of Choice) or Option 18 (First Assignment Only, if MOS qualified) to serve in a targeted MOS as identified by the ROC. Applicants in the grade of E-4 and below with more than 48 months active duty are restricted to the HRC business rules, therefore required to meet all other PS parameters outlined in para 7 of this message.
I have 36 months of AD time. ASVAB is high, GT is well above 110, does this mean I can enlist as any job so long as I qualify? Because I’m trying to enlist again, I just want to make sure I don’t have to restrict myself to the business rules if it isn’t necessary.
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Shipping in 2 weeks. I plan on hopefully getting a invitation to RASP while in OSUT. If I did get an invitation would I stay at Benning for pre rasp? If this did happen would I have time to go home and get belongings like I would if I just went from osut to duty station or would I have time to collect belongings when I pass or fail RASP?
[Sorry for long ass question]
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Anyone with s2/clearance experience please chime in...
I'm already in the army. I'm a foreign born naturalized citizen (naturalized while in the army). Spouse and parents are green card holders. How long does it usually take for a secret clearance? Do these even matter? I'm waiting for mine for 4 months and nothing yet... I need it asap but trying to see how long it usually takes for something like my case.
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I was wondering about 25u and 15n like what would I be doing daily? I need some advice picking my jobs please and thank you
Also I was looking at 19k to.. lol
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May I ask how prior military service in a foreign country would affect enlistment in the Army?
I have 2 friends who are both green card holders. One comes from Singapore and had to join SG Army due to conscription, and the other comes from that C---- country which is not getting so well with Uncle Sam right now and he did his 2 year there because he had broken up (this is the only explanation from him) but that was a long time ago and afaik he hadn't been in units involved in those atrocities but I cannot confirm that either. I guess it mainly affects choices of MOS and security clearance but since they're not yet citizens it doesn't make very much difference right? They seem to be really enthusiastic in the military (in fact we met in a paintball event) so if they would face discrimination or distrust for that I would suggest them to think again. Thanks!
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I'm stuck in quarantine at Gordon for two weeks prior to beginning AIT. I cannot leave my barracks room, but I have a laptop, CAC reader, phone, and internet access. What self development can I do during this time?
I'm already done with DLC1, can't access any COOL cert programs because I've not yet completed AIT. Other than prison workouts and reddit, what should I do to keep from losing my shit while also progressing my career in the guard?
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I'm currently in the guard right now, and I may be going on a Covid mission in the next couple of weeks. I guess my main questions are when do you normally have off days and what type of vehicles are typically used during these missions?
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Hello I am in the army stationed in hawaii. I enlisted with a bonus, I joined August 27, 2019. When I arrived I filed my bonus paperwork and I received my initial payment on February 7, 2020. Will I be receiving another payment in August? On my one year anniversary.
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I'm prior service going straight to AIT and I was given the BCT packing list which mentions having a small carry on bag. Could I just bring a duffel bag instead of buying another bag?
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I’m a civilian and wanting to enlist. Wanting to do Guard or Reserves. I always regretted not doing so and figured I was too old now (I’m 29).
I’ve been looking into WOFT, as I kept reading about the “street to seat” program.
Has anyone actually done this coming in as a civilian? Almost everyone I’ve come across had prior service. The 10 year contract is no problem, but I also read in one place that a civilian is required to do 3 years of active duty. Is that right?
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Have been thinking about getting tested for ADHD for a while now. However in my current situation, I just commissioned into the Guard but haven't gotten to BOLC yet. From what I've read through this subreddit is that getting the diagnosis won't get you the boot, but how would that work in my case before finishing BOLC?
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I work full time now in the private sector and I’m currently putting together my app to enlist.
At what point should I put in my notice with my current employer? My employee handbook states the obvious that I must give two weeks notice, however it also states that I should notify HR about enlisting so they can grant me leave, however I do not plan to go back to this job afterwards. Do I still need to tell them I am enlisting in the army?
Should I put in my notice once I swear in and have my ship date?
Thanks.
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Hey what’s up guys. A couple weeks ago I graduated infantry osut, and I am currently being held over on sand hill until the army has a “safe” flight to Hawaii. However, I am injured in my right knee. My question is, what could I expect the procedures to be if I show up to my duty station in Hawaii with this injury? I refuse to get my knee looked at here, because I worry the injury will be serious and I’ll end up staying here for months as a result. Thanks
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How does the medical waiver process work if I already know I'll need a waiver? Do I have to go to MEPS first, wait for them to formally disqualify me, and then work on the waiver paperwork? Do I need to go to MEPS a second time after the waiver is approved to actually swear in/enlist officially? Or can I apply for a waiver first, wait until it gets approved, and then go to MEPS?
Also, if you go to MEPS and they disqualify you (but you could potentially get a waiver, you just need to wait), what happens to your reserved MOS slot? Do you lose it or will they hold on to it for you for a certain amount of time?
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I just recently graduated from AIT, and I am doing in processing to my NG unit but I am about 10 pounds under the weight limit. I was able to pass meps just by a hair before basic, but the methods I used weren't very excersize heavy, so I can't really start sitting around and eating everything in sight right now, especially since I have to pass my APFT this Friday. I was wondering what exactly will happen to me when I go do my PHA and see I'm underweight.
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So currently in the process of joining NG wanting to go 35f. I have a question regarding how long AIT goes for because on the NG website it says 16 weeks but my recruiter is saying it’s 18-24 months. I think she’s confusing it with 35m which tacks on a language school. So can anyone tell me what’s up?
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I’m trying to put in for a reclass to 12P but besides the super thread, I can’t find any information that isn’t a few years old. Anyone on here that would be willing to give me some info?
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Hey so I have a question. I joined the army as a PVT and am in AIT now. I failed a pt test, past the next one two months later, Only to fail a tape test (I know I know) and was flagged which barred me from promoting. Im just getting off my flag now 4 months later, promoting at 1 year and 4 months of service:( is there any chance my commander would Give me waiver to be promoted to PFC or no?
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Are there any restrictions on MOS/schools if your parents or some other family member is a foreign national? Similar to if you’re a foreign national.
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Hello, i’m trying to get an 18 xray contract but i failed the depth perception test. Will this disqualify me? I’ve asked 2 different recruiters and they are both unsure so now i’m turning to internet strangers. If so, what can i do to fix the issue? I dont think it was my fault that i failed it.
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Has anyone used ASK lately? Trying to pull up the website and I get nothing on my home computer (I have my CAC reader and everything hooked up of course)
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At what point can you begin to put money into TSP? And also is TSP the only/best option?
Also do I really need all the stuff on the packing list my recruiter gave me? Will we be quarantined when we arrive to BCT? Any other info I should know??
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Do the drill sergeants try purposefully to look and behave funny to give the recruits mixed signals and break them in some way? Looking at the videos in youtube it seems very intense and funny at the same time.
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Does anyone know what a replacement depot is? Apparently my first station is one overseas
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Anyone on here been through the process of being prior service (not reserve or NG) and joining
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When I'm in army basic training, will I be given stamps or do I need to buy them? Also will I be able to use my phone sometimes?
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Can anyone give me a more personal tale of their experience at jungle school (preferably recently). I know basically what to expect from the course from the army resources I've read but haven't met anyone that can tell me what it's actually like in practice.
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I'm registered to vote in Texas, but will be in BOLC through November out of state. Do I simply use the regular Ballot by Mail process?
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Stupid question but am I able to become a warrant officer if I'm colorblind? Currently an E3 and wanting to go warrant.
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I graduated high school this fall and was accepted to Texas Tech. After they came out saying 1/2+ of their classes would be online, I decided it wasn't worth the $27k tuition. I flirted with the idea of doing community college classes, but the idea of staying home for another year gives me cancer.
In lieu of going doing online community college classes I have started talking to a recruiter and have MEPS Thursday. I have wanted to serve for years, but I always struggled with timing(before or after college). It seems like the timing is perfect now with corona ruining my other plans, so it is not as if it is fully a fling of the moment decision. However, it is a little overwhelming. Once you go to the recruiters they rush through everything to get you into MEPS and set up with a ship date as soon as possible. This isn't a bad thing, but it leaves me feeling like there is still a lot I don't know about the army.
My question is, what are the most important things to consider(in y'all's experience) before joining? What kind of questions should I be asking my recruiter? How do I know if military life is right for me? I want to go 37f and the job is available, any PSYOP guys out there with tips, advice, or info about the MOS you don't get from the recruitearmy website? Is joining as an officer really important enough that I should hold off enlistment until after college?
My deal is that I really don't know what questions I should be asking. The army seems so foreign I have no idea what to expect, despite the countless hours of research.
Any answers are greatly appreciated, thanks.
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How high or low do you keep the chest buckle on your torso for your ruck/how tight to you keep it?
It impairs breathing if too tight and i cant find the most optimal placing yet, currently it sits right under my pecs
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What are the requirements to board as 66T?
Should you currently be working in an ER even though you worked in an ER the previous year?
Is it easy so long as documents/reference checks out ?
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Excruciatingly dumb and simple question, but what do I do if the sizes that Supply has for my uniform are wrong? I'm enlisted and Guard, so my supply NCO just straight up gives me uniforms which is great, but now I have two sets of trousers that are too short and a patrol cap that's a size too big.
Do I just hand those back in and explain to my Sugar Daddy Supply Sergeant that I was wrong when I told the Army what my uniform sizes were several years ago? I know I could ask him or literally anyone else in my unit what I should do, but I feel more comfortable outing my ignorance to strangers on the internet than to people in my unit.
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So I’ve been finding conflicting information on this. Is it possible to re-enlist for a specific OCONUS duty station? I want to re-enlist for Germany, but I’d rather go to Wiesbaden as I’m MI.
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So I need to fill out a 5960 for ETS leave and I was wondering if I put down my duty station on the address for the duty location or should I put where my home of record that I'm moving to?
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Can you drop a 4187 to voluntary reclass from a balanced MOS to an under strength MOS? Or is it only Over strength to under strength?
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I'm an O3 that's going to catch PCS orders 18 months before I can REFRAD, so I'm trying to pick the duty station(s) I want to leave the Army from.
I'm considering going asking for Korea, because I had a blast there. But I feel sure that I read some reg or MILPER that says officers can't seperate during a short tour. Can't find it now though, am I delusional?
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Does standard infantry use the M4 Carbine or the M4A1?
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Are our current APFT scores still valid for promotion purposes past the expiration date?
Just recently got my E-4(P), and my latest APFT score was from last October. PPW is saying it will expire in October this year, but I thought we're not supposed to be taking APFTs anymore unless it's to remove a flag. Just wondering if I'll be good to stick it out until I can take a valid ACFT or if I have to get the ball rolling on taking one last APFT to make sure I don't lose my promotable.
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OSUT after BCT???
I recently dropped from the National Guard State OCS program. I’m a non prior service 09S and went to BCT May 2018.
I’m interested in 12B. Will I have to complete Red-Blue Phase again or will I be dropped into a class for Black and Gold Phases only?
Thank you!
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2020.08.17 12:24 Army_Bot Summary For: Weekly Question Thread (8/10/2020 to 8/16/2020)

Theoretically, if I never get married during my entire time while in the army will I always be in the barracks with a roommate or is there a rank you get to, where you can live by yourself? ( Location notwithstanding)
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Was told by my recruiter while him making it clear that he officially didn’t tell me that going to a congressmen would be the best bet for getting a waiver denied relooked at. In 8th grade I made a mistake and pulled the fire alarm and because of that got an F3 attempting to induce panic on my record. I’m grown man now been years since then never even had a ticket or tried drugs since.
It went through 8 people and every service member who looked at it gave approval but the civilian staff who looked at it denied it and the 2 star at the end according to my recruiter denied it to save face. How true that is idk but just what he said.
Is it worth contacting my congressmen or should I just give up?
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What's the process for getting into functional area 46A (public affairs officer) as an officer? Is there a minimum time in service or rank you have to make before you can switch over? Is this like packet MOSes where you can drop apply whenever as long as you meet the requirements, or do you have to wait for an opening/command approval/reaching the end of your contract? How competitive is it to get into this branch, and if it is competitive, how much weight is given to prior public affairs experience/education in the civilian world?
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Hello all I’m Shipping to basic tomorrow from Florida ,what are the chances we take a plane ?
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Joining Reserves and looking to sign for jobs that have SLRP. Theoretically, if it exists, will I be able to secure a job that has both a bonus and SLRP? Forgot to ask my recruiter while I was in today.
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Hey all,
I agreed to help a friend of a friend study for their ASVAB. They currently have a 20 on their only attempt. Anyone here have success stories of increasing from 20 to 40+?
At scoring a 20, I feel like the focus is more on retraining some basic multiplication and division than it is memorizing and using pythagorean theorem etc. but I would like some more info on what that score range requires.
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I'm in the process of trying to join the guard. I am currently a reservist that had a 6 year obligation on an 8 year contract. My 6th year was last week on the 7th. I was told I would receive orders in my email to the IRR which I am assuming are supposed to be discharge papers as well? How long does this usually take to receive? My understanding is that my transfer to the IRR is automatic without having to do anything. This is currently the only thing holding me up from going to MEPS for the guard and would like to get everything done ASAP.
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Prior service Marine here so when I go to MEPS I’ll be at the mercy of “needs of the army” I plan on going for 11x, but once there what are my chances and getting airborne guaranteed on my contract? If not are there opportunities along the infantry pipeline to where I can volunteer? I’ve heard from the recruiter and people here that after AIT I can volunteer for Airborne and after airborne I’d have a chance to volunteer for the 75th. What exactly are the chances of this happening? I just don’t want to be the guy that says my recruiter told me “...” after AIT and someone just tells me he lied to me get fucked. Thank you.
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Hi, I need help and I don't know what to do. I just had my father pass from COVID today. Thing is, my mother was 100% dependent on my father and now after his sudden passing she has no one but me. I'm just a dumb and young PFC living in the B's. What do I even do? Is there a way to support her at all?
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So hello I'm 23F and was just diagnosed with mild autism I'm currently an adult Ed teacher at a college and unless I told somebody they most definitely wouldn't know I'm autistic. But does the army look at that stuff, I've wanted to join for a while now and I've been getting in shape but if they don't let me in I feel like I've wasted so much time. I want to be a 91b and I have some experience already but will they try to say I'm unfit? From the stuff I've seen some service members are saying that autistic soldiers struggle with rapid changes but I think I'm pretty good at it. Any thoughts?
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Was taking my afternoon walk today and a recruiter pulled over and asked if I wanted to join the army. This is like the third time this has happened to me. Do recruiters just drive around all day in residential areas looking for young people to see if they want to join?
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Whats it like working in a HQ HHB unit as a Fiste 13F? Not really sure what to expect seeing im not directly attached to a maneuveline unit. Thanks!
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Is it true that on October 1st(the new fiscal year) more jobs will be available? I want to enlist as a 68K but my recruiter tells me there are no more slots for this fiscal year, if I wait till after October 1st what’s the chances that this mos will be available?
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How accurate is ACT when showing where your duty stations are?
Also, anyone have recommendations for a 670-1 acceptable backpack that can safely handle a laptop and all my other nerd shit like a Nintendo switch?
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I was wondering if anyone here has any information or suggestions about a 14 series warrant officer. I’m an new soldier in the army and was thinking about advancements in my field,14p.
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Hey y'all. So my fatass has lost 50lbs in 4-5 months (292-240) and my goal is to enlist. Would it be a good idea to talk to a recruiter soon, or wait until I'm at least at 200? When i was going to enlist NG a few years ago but passed up the offer, the recruiter actually worked with me and was a very awesome person, so it makes me wonder if someone will work with me again.
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Is the eagle run a graduation requirement?
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I have several questions, I’m 17. Senior in highschool. And I’m scheduled to take my ASVAB next week. I’m interested in getting into the Medical part of the army. So for this ASVAB, what should I take as a study course? I only have a week, anything could help. I’m not worried what’s after the ASVAB yet. Just now and now only. Another question is what was the ASVAB like for a casual high school student?
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Let’s say you’re a tall bastard, 6’7” or so... when practicing for the leg tuck, you’re feet will touch the ground, yeah? Will there be accommodations?
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Hey guys, sorry in advance for how long this is. So back in September I tried to get into the marines, I filled out all of my paperwork I was working out every other day with them, I did everything i was supposed to be doing. I had some unpaid tickets to clear up (speeding, parking, shit like that) so after that was all said and done I went to MEPS, I was pumped and ready to swear in then and there. Well come to turn out I couldn’t get a waiver for my specific charge. I was originally charged with distribution of marijuana when I was 15 on school grounds but I got a stay of adjudication which basically means after I completed all of my terms - probation, community service, rehabilitation class and paid a fine it was sealed on my record. Anyways we filled out all the paper work, my recruiter thought I was 100% going to be fine but it took 3 trips down to MEPS before I was actually told I couldn’t get this waiver. So then I tried for the Army (which I was told is more lenient on drug charges) so same thing, filled out all of my paperwork and was working out (this time mainly on my own at the gym just because of work hours), keeping in contact with my recruiter obviously so on and so forth. About 3 months pass with only me contacting me recruiter and she “still hadn’t heard anything” which I was expecting she said it could take up to 6 months. She stopped responding to me and then out of the blue texts me and asked if I could talk - I was extremely busy at work so I asked her if she could text me to which she never responded. I’m assuming it was denied because I never got a response or heard back from her after that. I’m currently in the process of having my complete record expunged which consists of; the original charge listed, another marijuana possession charge and paraphernalia charge, a theft charge and a marijuana in a motor vehicle. Neither of the two branches were worried about the other charges, just the main one that was adjudicated. I’m curious on if I would have a shot or if it would be worth it to re try once my charges are expunged to get in, even if it’s with a different recruiting station? I’ve always wanted to serve and didn’t realize when I was a young fuck wad that my decisions would effect me when I was older. My ASVAB score was an 87 and they told my I could pretty much go for anything that I wanted but a security clearance would likely hold me up. Would this still be the case as well if I got everything expunged? Thanks again for reading my long ass post. All input is appreciated.
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So weird question: Prior-Service USAF enlisted. Failed out of DLI years ago because I was a stupid kid. Looking at going Army 18x. Question is will my previous failure at DLI prevent me from having a chance to go SF due to them being required to attend the school, or will I have a second chance at passing? Recruiter doesn’t know the answer) and I can’t find anything about it online. Thank you for any assistance.
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Is my understanding of the prior service business rules correct? From my understanding if your MOS is not on the list you choose a job that is listed?
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Can't find a straight answer. Does anyone know what is the current regulation on combat patches for CENTCOM? Which countries are excluded?
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Career Advice: I am interested in enlisting as a 68W and pursuing both the W1 and F2 ASIs. What does this process look like on the practical level? What should I know beforehand?
Howdy, y'all,
I am a 21-year-old pre-nursing student who is seriously considering an enlistment in order to gain practical emergency medical skills and fund the remainder of my college education. For the last couple months I have been investigating hospital corpsman contract options with the Navy. I have met with a Navy recruiter once (an experience Im not eager to relive with the Army, which is why I'm gathering as much information as I can before I step foot in a recruiter's office again) and have spoken with several current and former Navy corpsmen.
For the last 12 months I have worked as a patient care technician in a civilian hemodialysis clinic and a mid-sized regional hospital. These experiences have taught me two things: 1. I love being present in peoples' darkest hours and alleviating their physical suffering, and I am good at it & 2. I want to continue to further my medical education and training, but I would rather gouge out my own eyes than spend another year within the walls of a hospital or clinic. My mid-term goal is to be a flight nurse; my long-term career goal is to treat traumatic injuries in humanitarian settings in the Middle East and Central Asia. I am ready to take the next step toward these goals, and I believe that the best way to do this is to receive the training necessary to treat injuries in the field AND take advantage of the awesome GI benefits my state has in order to secure my education.
I have recently accepted a yearlong contract for a new job which will provide me with ample time to research and train in the meantime. I am a small female who is athletic but understands that I'm a far cry from where I need to be in order to be truly competitive for these ASIs or the Navy ratings I would be interested in. I have a whole year to prepare, but I'm already working on developing physical and mental discipline- I'd love to hear from any females who have been down this road already and might have some advice for me.
The corpsmen I have spoken to have indicated that they have been very satisfied with their careers (especially those who were able to go to the Fleet Marine Force), but that if I am serious about helicopters, I need to pursue the Army rather than the Navy. I'm keeping my options open, but I'm focusing my research on the Army right now.
All of that said, here are my questions/talking points:
  1. What advice do 68Ws who have pursued these ASIs have for someone who's still one year out from signing a contract?
  2. I understand that becoming certified as an F2 requires at least one year of experience as a 68W. Does the same rule apply to W1, or could I submit a packet for a unit (160th, for example- I'm aiming high here) that could provide me with that training soon after AIT? I have spoken to a few non-68W personnel who believe this to be the case, but they advised me to check.
  3. I also understand that I can do literally everything right and STILL end up somewhere I don't want to be, doing something I don't want to do, because that's the nature of the beast. What can I do to protect myself and cover my bases in order to mitigate this risk? What should I be aware/conscious of as I'm meeting with recruiters and negotiating my contract?
  4. What are my potential blind spots? What do I have completely backwards? I invite anyone with more relevant experience than I have (so, most, if not all of y'all) to pick apart my plan and help me find its flaws.
Thanks in advance for reading my long-ass post :) I think that what y'all do is awesome and I can't wait to hear from you- but of course feel free to change my mind.
-B.
(moved from main army subreddit)
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Going to Benning for bct. Are they still doing the apft or have they switched to the acft for the “final fitness test”? Same question for RASP and PT test in the regiment.
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Does anyone know if they are currently accepting Time in Service Waivers for interservice transfer when applying for WO?
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Going to 255A WOBC and curious what to expect. Living situations and work/school "lifestyle". I'm a reservist and splitting my time there in 3 phases as not to completely destroy my civilian life.
Any info would be handy thanks, especially Do's & Dont's and things you wish you would've known before attending.
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Hey all, I'm a prior service 11b from the NG and I'm trying to get into active duty. I get to choose a duty station and I'm thinking either Fort Benning or Fort Campbell. I eventually want to go to RASP, so with that in mind would it be ideal to pick Benning, or does it even matter. Thanks.
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Prior-service 74D (e-4) wanting to re-enlist after Honorable Discharge in 2014. I want to reenlist under a different MOS but many recruiters tell me I have to follow the Prior Service business rules. The prior service rules have a passage that says the following:
7d. Applicants in the grade of E-4 and below with 48 months or less active duty are NOT restricted to the HRC business rules, therefore authorized to enlist Option 3 (Training of Choice) or Option 18 (First Assignment Only, if MOS qualified) to serve in a targeted MOS as identified by the ROC. Applicants in the grade of E-4 and below with more than 48 months active duty are restricted to the HRC business rules, therefore required to meet all other PS parameters outlined in para 7 of this message.
I have 36 months of AD time. ASVAB is high, GT is well above 110, does this mean I can enlist as any job so long as I qualify? Because I’m trying to enlist again, I just want to make sure I don’t have to restrict myself to the business rules if it isn’t necessary.
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Shipping in 2 weeks. I plan on hopefully getting a invitation to RASP while in OSUT. If I did get an invitation would I stay at Benning for pre rasp? If this did happen would I have time to go home and get belongings like I would if I just went from osut to duty station or would I have time to collect belongings when I pass or fail RASP?
[Sorry for long ass question]
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Anyone with s2/clearance experience please chime in...
I'm already in the army. I'm a foreign born naturalized citizen (naturalized while in the army). Spouse and parents are green card holders. How long does it usually take for a secret clearance? Do these even matter? I'm waiting for mine for 4 months and nothing yet... I need it asap but trying to see how long it usually takes for something like my case.
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I was wondering about 25u and 15n like what would I be doing daily? I need some advice picking my jobs please and thank you
Also I was looking at 19k to.. lol
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May I ask how prior military service in a foreign country would affect enlistment in the Army?
I have 2 friends who are both green card holders. One comes from Singapore and had to join SG Army due to conscription, and the other comes from that C---- country which is not getting so well with Uncle Sam right now and he did his 2 year there because he had broken up (this is the only explanation from him) but that was a long time ago and afaik he hadn't been in units involved in those atrocities but I cannot confirm that either. I guess it mainly affects choices of MOS and security clearance but since they're not yet citizens it doesn't make very much difference right? They seem to be really enthusiastic in the military (in fact we met in a paintball event) so if they would face discrimination or distrust for that I would suggest them to think again. Thanks!
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I'm stuck in quarantine at Gordon for two weeks prior to beginning AIT. I cannot leave my barracks room, but I have a laptop, CAC reader, phone, and internet access. What self development can I do during this time?
I'm already done with DLC1, can't access any COOL cert programs because I've not yet completed AIT. Other than prison workouts and reddit, what should I do to keep from losing my shit while also progressing my career in the guard?
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I'm currently in the guard right now, and I may be going on a Covid mission in the next couple of weeks. I guess my main questions are when do you normally have off days and what type of vehicles are typically used during these missions?
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Hello I am in the army stationed in hawaii. I enlisted with a bonus, I joined August 27, 2019. When I arrived I filed my bonus paperwork and I received my initial payment on February 7, 2020. Will I be receiving another payment in August? On my one year anniversary.
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I'm prior service going straight to AIT and I was given the BCT packing list which mentions having a small carry on bag. Could I just bring a duffel bag instead of buying another bag?
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I’m a civilian and wanting to enlist. Wanting to do Guard or Reserves. I always regretted not doing so and figured I was too old now (I’m 29).
I’ve been looking into WOFT, as I kept reading about the “street to seat” program.
Has anyone actually done this coming in as a civilian? Almost everyone I’ve come across had prior service. The 10 year contract is no problem, but I also read in one place that a civilian is required to do 3 years of active duty. Is that right?
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Have been thinking about getting tested for ADHD for a while now. However in my current situation, I just commissioned into the Guard but haven't gotten to BOLC yet. From what I've read through this subreddit is that getting the diagnosis won't get you the boot, but how would that work in my case before finishing BOLC?
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I work full time now in the private sector and I’m currently putting together my app to enlist.
At what point should I put in my notice with my current employer? My employee handbook states the obvious that I must give two weeks notice, however it also states that I should notify HR about enlisting so they can grant me leave, however I do not plan to go back to this job afterwards. Do I still need to tell them I am enlisting in the army?
Should I put in my notice once I swear in and have my ship date?
Thanks.
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Hey what’s up guys. A couple weeks ago I graduated infantry osut, and I am currently being held over on sand hill until the army has a “safe” flight to Hawaii. However, I am injured in my right knee. My question is, what could I expect the procedures to be if I show up to my duty station in Hawaii with this injury? I refuse to get my knee looked at here, because I worry the injury will be serious and I’ll end up staying here for months as a result. Thanks
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How does the medical waiver process work if I already know I'll need a waiver? Do I have to go to MEPS first, wait for them to formally disqualify me, and then work on the waiver paperwork? Do I need to go to MEPS a second time after the waiver is approved to actually swear in/enlist officially? Or can I apply for a waiver first, wait until it gets approved, and then go to MEPS?
Also, if you go to MEPS and they disqualify you (but you could potentially get a waiver, you just need to wait), what happens to your reserved MOS slot? Do you lose it or will they hold on to it for you for a certain amount of time?
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I just recently graduated from AIT, and I am doing in processing to my NG unit but I am about 10 pounds under the weight limit. I was able to pass meps just by a hair before basic, but the methods I used weren't very excersize heavy, so I can't really start sitting around and eating everything in sight right now, especially since I have to pass my APFT this Friday. I was wondering what exactly will happen to me when I go do my PHA and see I'm underweight.
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So currently in the process of joining NG wanting to go 35f. I have a question regarding how long AIT goes for because on the NG website it says 16 weeks but my recruiter is saying it’s 18-24 months. I think she’s confusing it with 35m which tacks on a language school. So can anyone tell me what’s up?
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I’m trying to put in for a reclass to 12P but besides the super thread, I can’t find any information that isn’t a few years old. Anyone on here that would be willing to give me some info?
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Hey so I have a question. I joined the army as a PVT and am in AIT now. I failed a pt test, past the next one two months later, Only to fail a tape test (I know I know) and was flagged which barred me from promoting. Im just getting off my flag now 4 months later, promoting at 1 year and 4 months of service:( is there any chance my commander would Give me waiver to be promoted to PFC or no?
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Are there any restrictions on MOS/schools if your parents or some other family member is a foreign national? Similar to if you’re a foreign national.
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Hello, i’m trying to get an 18 xray contract but i failed the depth perception test. Will this disqualify me? I’ve asked 2 different recruiters and they are both unsure so now i’m turning to internet strangers. If so, what can i do to fix the issue? I dont think it was my fault that i failed it.
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Has anyone used ASK lately? Trying to pull up the website and I get nothing on my home computer (I have my CAC reader and everything hooked up of course)
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At what point can you begin to put money into TSP? And also is TSP the only/best option?
Also do I really need all the stuff on the packing list my recruiter gave me? Will we be quarantined when we arrive to BCT? Any other info I should know??
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Do the drill sergeants try purposefully to look and behave funny to give the recruits mixed signals and break them in some way? Looking at the videos in youtube it seems very intense and funny at the same time.
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Does anyone know what a replacement depot is? Apparently my first station is one overseas
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Anyone on here been through the process of being prior service (not reserve or NG) and joining
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When I'm in army basic training, will I be given stamps or do I need to buy them? Also will I be able to use my phone sometimes?
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Can anyone give me a more personal tale of their experience at jungle school (preferably recently). I know basically what to expect from the course from the army resources I've read but haven't met anyone that can tell me what it's actually like in practice.
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I'm registered to vote in Texas, but will be in BOLC through November out of state. Do I simply use the regular Ballot by Mail process?
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Stupid question but am I able to become a warrant officer if I'm colorblind? Currently an E3 and wanting to go warrant.
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I graduated high school this fall and was accepted to Texas Tech. After they came out saying 1/2+ of their classes would be online, I decided it wasn't worth the $27k tuition. I flirted with the idea of doing community college classes, but the idea of staying home for another year gives me cancer.
In lieu of going doing online community college classes I have started talking to a recruiter and have MEPS Thursday. I have wanted to serve for years, but I always struggled with timing(before or after college). It seems like the timing is perfect now with corona ruining my other plans, so it is not as if it is fully a fling of the moment decision. However, it is a little overwhelming. Once you go to the recruiters they rush through everything to get you into MEPS and set up with a ship date as soon as possible. This isn't a bad thing, but it leaves me feeling like there is still a lot I don't know about the army.
My question is, what are the most important things to consider(in y'all's experience) before joining? What kind of questions should I be asking my recruiter? How do I know if military life is right for me? I want to go 37f and the job is available, any PSYOP guys out there with tips, advice, or info about the MOS you don't get from the recruitearmy website? Is joining as an officer really important enough that I should hold off enlistment until after college?
My deal is that I really don't know what questions I should be asking. The army seems so foreign I have no idea what to expect, despite the countless hours of research.
Any answers are greatly appreciated, thanks.
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How high or low do you keep the chest buckle on your torso for your ruck/how tight to you keep it?
It impairs breathing if too tight and i cant find the most optimal placing yet, currently it sits right under my pecs
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What are the requirements to board as 66T?
Should you currently be working in an ER even though you worked in an ER the previous year?
Is it easy so long as documents/reference checks out ?
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Excruciatingly dumb and simple question, but what do I do if the sizes that Supply has for my uniform are wrong? I'm enlisted and Guard, so my supply NCO just straight up gives me uniforms which is great, but now I have two sets of trousers that are too short and a patrol cap that's a size too big.
Do I just hand those back in and explain to my Sugar Daddy Supply Sergeant that I was wrong when I told the Army what my uniform sizes were several years ago? I know I could ask him or literally anyone else in my unit what I should do, but I feel more comfortable outing my ignorance to strangers on the internet than to people in my unit.
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So I’ve been finding conflicting information on this. Is it possible to re-enlist for a specific OCONUS duty station? I want to re-enlist for Germany, but I’d rather go to Wiesbaden as I’m MI.
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So I need to fill out a 5960 for ETS leave and I was wondering if I put down my duty station on the address for the duty location or should I put where my home of record that I'm moving to?
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Can you drop a 4187 to voluntary reclass from a balanced MOS to an under strength MOS? Or is it only Over strength to under strength?
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I'm an O3 that's going to catch PCS orders 18 months before I can REFRAD, so I'm trying to pick the duty station(s) I want to leave the Army from.
I'm considering going asking for Korea, because I had a blast there. But I feel sure that I read some reg or MILPER that says officers can't seperate during a short tour. Can't find it now though, am I delusional?
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Does standard infantry use the M4 Carbine or the M4A1?
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Are our current APFT scores still valid for promotion purposes past the expiration date?
Just recently got my E-4(P), and my latest APFT score was from last October. PPW is saying it will expire in October this year, but I thought we're not supposed to be taking APFTs anymore unless it's to remove a flag. Just wondering if I'll be good to stick it out until I can take a valid ACFT or if I have to get the ball rolling on taking one last APFT to make sure I don't lose my promotable.
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OSUT after BCT???
I recently dropped from the National Guard State OCS program. I’m a non prior service 09S and went to BCT May 2018.
I’m interested in 12B. Will I have to complete Red-Blue Phase again or will I be dropped into a class for Black and Gold Phases only?
Thank you!
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2020.07.31 01:24 HallelujahK My BF (25M) is manipulative and i don’t know how to change it

So i (23F) have been dating my bf (25M) for about half a year and throughout the relationship we fight and misunderstand each other constantly. there have been months we go without really fighting and then certain weeks we could fight every day. Mostly it’s stupid so we usually just drop it since I do love him and we have a lot of fun together and constantly learn new things from each other.
He hasn’t had a job since we met and by what i can tell doesnt plans on getting one. He typically makes money pretending to be girls on the internet and having sugar daddy’s (LOL don’t ask me how i always thought it was funny tbh). Anyways this clearly isn’t a reliable source of income and typically i was the one spending money in the relationship. I don’t mind this as it’s just money and I was on unemployment for a while so i didn’t feel any type of pressure financially.
I have been searching for a job and they recently cut off benefits for covid. But he has not been and instead relies heavily on me. I usually am too weak to say no to him and a lot of people because it’s just money and i can make it back. But it had been getting on my nerves after 2 months drought in his “job”. It got to a point where he would just start going thru drive thrus expecting me to pay it even though i didn’t even want that kind of food. So I would say things like i’m not going to pay for this or one time I got mad and said what do i look like an ATM. I felt used as he was acting like the money I had he also earned.
So anyways we got into a big fight after he picked up a check for me that I had gotten refunded for because of this whole situation that i had payed 1000 for his car to get fixed and they messed it up. He facetimed me and asked for 50 dollars from it. I asked why and he said in case i need it. so i said no because if there was ever an emergency i would just send money u know. Then he started to really push it by saying he drove all the way there for me and how i had just received a different check too it was just 50$. I said that he shouldn’t have gone there expecting for me to give some of the check to him and he should have gone there because it was the right thing to do after i paid so much for his car! this really irritated him and he started to mock me and call me names ultimately leading to the idea that i was being greedy. I then said it was kind of a manipulative thing to do as it was my money and pressuring me for it isn’t right.
Now this really angered him calling it manipulative... he really let loose calling me a fucking idiot, a coke head (lol i did the drug 2 times in my life), and a drunk. he proceeded to break up with me. Keep in mind this happened every time we fought he would say i don’t like you and i want to break up with you. the last time it happened and i forgave him i said the next time you break up with me or threaten to it’s over.
So he blocked me all day and then at night he unblocked me and texted me that he loved me saying sorry i lost my temper. I have not taken him back and I don’t know if i will be able to as he said a LOT more hurtful things both this time and times before. I would never insult someone let alone someone i care about and love.
So my question is what should i do? was I being greedy or wrong when i said it was manipulative or was he actually manipulating me? is he a narcissist? I’m going through all of these things but i damn sure can’t support a grown ass man on my little salary. Every time i try to bring up money or finances he takes it as a personal attack and gets mad at me like this. I’m not sure what to do.
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